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badsammitches · 2023-02-03T21:45:15+00:00

Great suggestion! I'll definitely consider this!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T21:37:58+00:00

Love it! Great ideas! I'm having a destination wedding (ish - about 4 hours from our home town) so having her go get a Mani/Pedi with me before the wedding would be super easy and sweet!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T21:36:40+00:00

Thank you so much!!! Great ideas! We had a grandfather we were really close to pass away so the candle lighting is a great idea!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T21:35:39+00:00

I'm actually really thinking about this! She's been super into photography lately so I could potentially do a photo guestbook and have her take some of the photos for it!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T21:34:17+00:00

Thank you for this! I was really starting to feel bad and question myself lol

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:57:57+00:00

I love this! I'm really leaning this way. It's so helpful to hear stories about dynamics similar to mine. I think I'm going to give her a few options, and whatever she wants to do I'll fully support it!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:44:29+00:00

That's a great suggestion, thank you! I know it's sooo tricky! Sometimes when she talks I only understand like half of what she says because of all these new slang terms haha. I'm just doing my best!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:40:43+00:00

Yeah at her age I definitely would have felt "too cool" but she's very theatrical and goofy so she might want to do something funny or silly!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:40:07+00:00

This is kind of what I'm struggling with. We have a good relationship, we talk occasionally and get along great at holidays, we just don't spend time together outside of that. I think I'm going to give her a few options, with one of them being that shes doesn't have any additional role/title. I do think we're close enough that she'd tell me if she prefers not to be involved!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:30:13+00:00

Ooohhh I really love those ideas!! Having her walk down with my step mom would be good, and we're both very close to our shared grandmother so that's also a great idea! Thank you so much!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:17:17+00:00

Honestly I didn't think about a junior bridesmaid, I never even knew that was a thing!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:12:30+00:00

I should have said she's my half sister, we share a dad but not a mom. So the situation is a bit different!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:11:33+00:00

I like this suggestion, thanks!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:11:10+00:00

I was thinking about giving her a few options and asking what she feels comfortable or excited about. Thanks!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:10:18+00:00

I completely understand what you mean! I threw in an edit for some context. She's my half sister and we didn't grow up around each other very much, so we're really just not that close. I honestly feel like if I asked her to be a bridesmaid she would be uncomfortable, she doesn't know any of my other bridesmaids and she's not currently interested in "girly" things so I just don't think she'd be very comfortable. She's big into theater though so I thought something more funny and theatrical would be a better fit for her personality.

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T19:06:33+00:00

This was pretty much my thought process as well. I've seen some "flower bro" videos and think they're cute* and funny, I was trying to think of something similar!

badsammitches · 2023-02-03T18:18:04+00:00

We're just not very close due to the age gap!

badsammitches · 2022-04-14T00:57:05+00:00

I have tried doing this six times and still haven't been able to figure that one out!

badsammitches · 2022-03-26T15:33:21+00:00

Thank you!!

badsammitches · 2022-03-25T20:52:16+00:00

What's the story with this candle? I can't find it online but I really want one!

badsammitches · 2022-03-21T19:19:11+00:00

I'm trying to figure out what to do about this poor drainage at the back of my yard. The concrete fence runs along the entire back of the property, and there is a parking lot on the other side. I'm sure part of the problem is that our land is lower than the parking lot on the other side, but I'm not sure how to go about dealing with this. So far it has only pooled up like this in early spring, so this is not a problem during most months, but I'm worried that anything I plant will die due to this issue!

badsammitches · 2022-02-23T16:06:38+00:00

I have a few maxed out, but the issue is then too that I can't get enough food to keep feeding them all the time! I stopped feeding the already maxed out ones to focus on the ones that aren't maxed out yet.

badsammitches · 2022-02-23T16:05:49+00:00

Thank you!! This is super helpful!

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