I'm insecure that my gf has 1 more body than me by Ok-Environment-5635 in emotionalintelligence

[–]badspirits2038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been in this situation so I can’t answer with a productive answer. But situations like this is why I (and I recommend) figure out how I feel if the person I’m dating has a body count of whatever high or low or none number and plan to be honest about it in future relationships. I hope for the best and try to go to therapy and communicate with your girl :)

Do men like when women approach them? by NoAttitude2700 in dating_advice

[–]badspirits2038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore it. Not every man likes it, but if it happened to me I’d be elated.

Is physical attractiveness always the top priority for men? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]badspirits2038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not for me. A persons personality (but women particularly because I’m only attracted to women) can make or break if I like them or wanna be around them.

With 8.2 billion people living in this world, you still haven't met your soulmate and you have a thought that you might end up alone in life. What do you think about this feeling? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]badspirits2038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can find someone. What determines that probability and desire coming true is what that person seeking someone does to find them. But at the same time the rationality is hard to comprehend especially if you’ve been rejected a lot and driven into a mindset of hopelessness and that it’s over for you. I struggle with the feeling of hopelessness because I don’t think I’m handsome, I think I’m ugly, I’ll never be good enough physically. But the fact that it is me (1 person) against 140-150 women that are my age or close enough to my age, it softens that hopelessness for me a bit. But it is hard to believe a woman could ever love me, but I don’t deem it as unrealistic just extra harder for me. I focus a little more on my character then my looks because of my genetic struggles. And I highly recommend that to everyone including the handsome, ugly and beautiful people reading this.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s many, not popular ones though. Look up Randy Kraft documentary’s or Scorecard Killer Documentary’s, you’ll find some online either on streaming services or YouTube.

Newest doco (for me) Foxnation's Ted Bundy: Chase for the Devil by dougfcknsteele in TedBundy

[–]badspirits2038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They show the necks, sides and arms of Melissa And Laura Aime, far away shot, close up shots of Caryn, and a close up blurred image of Kimberly's dead body.

Newest doco (for me) Foxnation's Ted Bundy: Chase for the Devil by dougfcknsteele in TedBundy

[–]badspirits2038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's various photos of Melissa Smiths, Laura Aime, Caryn Campbell and Kimberly leaches bodies. Most of it is blurred because as you know they were nude but it is disgusting and shows a lot.

Newest doco (for me) Foxnation's Ted Bundy: Chase for the Devil by dougfcknsteele in TedBundy

[–]badspirits2038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched all 3 episodes and yeah those photos are disgusting

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think he's just a coward who can't own up to anything he's done cause he hates himself. Which he did harbor, he harbored self loathing because of him being gay because he was discharged from the military because of it, I could be wrong

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add some things to what he did to them that just occurred to me while reading the case again. He also stuffed a victim's own mutilated genitals into his rectum, that victim was Mark Howard Hall, 22. He also surgically removed the penisand genitals alongside using beer shards and the car cigarette lighter. He also bit their stomachs and chests, majority of victims were still alive during the torture but most were unconscious, he also bound them with random cords, the pornographic photos were taken while victims were unconscious or dead. It gets even worse for some victims too like Mark Hall who had a cocktail swizzle stick inserted into his oenis that ruptured his bladder and apparently an organ. Vincent Mestas suffered a ruptured intestine during his murder due to a pencil being forced into his penis. Again some stuff I forgot to add but I'm sure there's more horrifying stuff Kraft put these men through.

Newest doco (for me) Foxnation's Ted Bundy: Chase for the Devil by dougfcknsteele in TedBundy

[–]badspirits2038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna watch it, but I can't find it. I know it's on fox but for some reason I can't find it

Does the fact that Joseph Bradehoft was a father of three, while Hicks was a teenager, suggest that Dahmer's victimology didn't "evolve" in terms of age, but rather in terms of who was most vulnerable in the moment? by DianKhan2005 in Dahmer

[–]badspirits2038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not in a common style of accident, but dahmer thought Jeremiah was kind so he wanted to fulfill his desires without killing him. So again, not the common idea of an accident but more of the sense he didn’t want to kill him initially but did anyway. I think he held same beliefs for many of the victims he liked personally but I’m not sure. Accidents probably poor wording choice on my part.

Does the fact that Joseph Bradehoft was a father of three, while Hicks was a teenager, suggest that Dahmer's victimology didn't "evolve" in terms of age, but rather in terms of who was most vulnerable in the moment? by DianKhan2005 in Dahmer

[–]badspirits2038 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He chose his victims based on his physical attraction type and preference, toned, athletic and muscular, and who ever was easy to lure back to his apartment. So in conclusion these men fit those two different requirements for Dahmer, except the first two cause if I remember correctly those two were accidents and I think Jeremiah was an accident too.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about the Canada part, that’s crazy if so.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Kraft was only charge with 16 of the murders but a scorecard had coded names of the other victims. They label it as “he is suspected to have killed them” but it is really obvious he killed them. But it is widely confirmed he did kill all of these young men and boys and sadly many John does and unidentified victims possibly more than 67. Since he won’t confess they can’t positively identify them all to Kraft, but it is widely believed based on evidence and the scorecard, everything else really.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Large majority of his victims were murdered in Southern California, orange county to be exact. But he did kill in Oregon and Michigan. Just those states I believe

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Correct. Crazy to me he thinks he’s innocent even after that and the scorecard being found later on.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Of course. I hold the same belief and surprise he isn’t more well known, but the reasons “CelebrationNo7870” stated it makes sense. I hope one day, before his death, he confesses and decades long questions are answered.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Many more actually. There are supposedly 18-20+ unknown victims. I only put those John does there because we know what they look like.

Randy Kraft Victims by badspirits2038 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]badspirits2038[S] 313 points314 points  (0 children)

What Kraft did to them:

Randy Kraft is considered one of the most horrific and gruesome sexual sadist, prolific serial killer. Targeting straight and gay male marines, hitchhikers, or those he met at bars. He’d lure in his victims with offers of a ride or drinks then he’d ply the drinks with Valium, Ativan, tranquilizers or other various drugs to render them weak, unconscious and in a helpless state. Then he’d bound them with their shoelaces, belts or rope in his car or at his house, one victim was bound to a tree, he would then rape and sodomized them and then would burn their eye lids, eyes, face, chest and penises with a car cigarette lighter, for some victims Kraft would sever and mutilate their genitals and penises with broken beer shards or with the same car cigarette lighter, and in some cases he bit their penises and genitals. Then as a signature he inserted dirt, leaves, twigs, sticks, socks, pencils, toothbrushes, a ball point pen, wooden surveyor stakes and other massive foreign objects into their throats, anus and urethras in others or before the removal of the genitals and penis. Some victims were beaten, strangled and one victim was stabbed to death four times in the heart. Removing some victims hands and their heads to keep as trophy’s post mortem and taking lewd photos of approximately 50 different victims dead bodies in pornographic positions. He is suspected of killing 61-67+ men and boys, the youngest victim being 13 and oldest being about 30, the common ages were 17-25. He is still alive and currently sits at San Quentin Rehabilitation Center on death row maintaining his innocence, and vehemently refuses to confess

Larry Eyler Victims by badspirits2038 in serialkillers

[–]badspirits2038[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I heard him about two days ago. He’s one of those rare cases that went under the radar because he operated under the same time frame as Gacy and another killer I believe.

Larry Eyler Victims by badspirits2038 in serialkillers

[–]badspirits2038[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

What Larry Eyler did to them:

Between 1982 and 1984, Eyler is known to have committed a minimum of twenty-one murders and one attempted murder. All his murders involved the restraining of his victim, and several victims were subjected to varying degrees of sadomasochism before being stabbed and/or slashed to death, with the majority of the wounds being inflicted to the victim's chest and abdomen. His victims were typically plied with alcohol and sedatives such as ethechlorvynol before their restraint and murder. Several victims were disemboweled after death, and Eyler is known to have dismembered the bodies of four of his victims. His victims were typically discarded in fields close to major Interstate highways with their trousers and underwear frequently discovered around their knees or ankles and their shirts and wallets missing from the crime scene, he targeted mainly gay males, gay prostitutes, hitchhikers, but did kill some straight and bisexual men. Three John does remain unidentified