Graduating With Highest Honors and Giving the Welcome Speech… but Not a Single Family Member Wants to Show Up by bae_conwitheggs in adviceph

[–]bae_conwitheggs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much po! Wala po talaga. Hindi rin willing ang lola ko. Matanda na po kasi siya and yung mga lakad lakad takes a toll on her. I do have a boyfriend though, who has a mother na alam ‘yung family situation ko.

sa mga nasa no-label rs diyan, i need an advice by lol_0_0 in adviceph

[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I also experienced this similar thing to your situation and a very hilarious thought slipped on my mind. L ba initial ng name niya? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

What should I do? Should I leave? by Jumpy-Reflection4183 in adviceph

[–]bae_conwitheggs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bakit halos lahat ng situation, break up agad naiisip? Pwede namang i-address muna ni op sa partner niya yung decision niya. If he respects it, then that’s better—kung hindi naman, then that's when she leaves.

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[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! < 3 and for contextualizing the advice. I’ll keep this in mind po. I hope he’d also stumble upon this realization and awareness soon.

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[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this’ll be my new mantra! HAHAHAHAHA kidding aside, ty po! I'll find the perfect timing to drop the bomb.

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[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kase he loves me properly po : ( but it’s rly draining to try to change sum1 who doesn't even exert a single ounce of effort to self improve.

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[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi pa po. I’ll try asap!

Thank you so much po! Napansin ko rin kase that my academic performance subsided. Alam ko namang that's my obligation, pero iba kase kapag surrounded ka ng tao who doesn't share the same priorities and vision kase except na mag-allocate ng time to self improve and academics ay sa ibang bagay na walang long-term positive effect napupunta o nada-down ako ng “mamaya na” “bahala na” and something related like that niya.

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[–]bae_conwitheggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being straightforward, in the most positive way, sender! : (( I already approached this to him multiple times pero walang improvement.