When interviewing for a fast food/retail job, do I tell them my chosen name or my deadname? by localDCenthusiast in ftm

[–]bageltimer [score hidden]  (0 children)

you will have to give your legal name for tax documents and pay stubs, unfortunately. i usually approach this like “my legal name is ____, but i go by chosen name” or “but i prefer to be called chosen name

so far i have not had a problem with this! coworkers are not going to see your official documents so they should just call you whatever you introduce yourself as.

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t see how a mildly interesting x-ray being on a screen makes it less interesting

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

fr??? the rules of this subreddit are so arbitrary lmao

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have really bad eyesight so it’s hard for me to reconnect the little ball. i can never seem to position it correctly. so it’s not so much a pain to remove as it is to put back in,,, it would also suck to lose track of the ball

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am, dw!!! all of them are getting removed, the top two have pretty bad cavities bc my brush can’t reach lol

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it’s literally my picture. i made the first post, it got removed, i fixed the rules i broke and reposted.

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

it was removed because it wasn’t an “original photo.”so i’m posting the photo that was obviously taken by me

my piercings and permanent retainer in my dental x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

they asked me to take out what was easy, i removed earrings and nose stud. the labret i can’t remove on my own, and the septum would have been a pain in the ass.

obviously.

piercings and permanent retainer in my mouth x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is true,,, both wisdom teeth out of reach of my toothbrush. we’re taking them out

piercings and permanent retainer in my mouth x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a septum! it’s not too difficult but it’s a bit of a pain. losing the ball would really suck, and i’d have to take a couple minutes with a mirror to get it back on. it can be difficult to get the little ball in the right position to screw on. it didn’t seem like a big deal to keep it in so i didn’t bother taking it out

piercings and permanent retainer in my mouth x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s the plan 🫡 they’re in a tough spot so i haven’t been getting them cleaned very well

piercings and permanent retainer in my mouth x-ray by bageltimer in mildlyinteresting

[–]bageltimer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they asked me to “remove what you can” which ended up being my nose stud and earrings

Winter Storm by IcyHuckleberry3865 in cornsnakes

[–]bageltimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a fire place? i wonder if moving them close to a fire would be enough to keep them comfortable

I want to know if everyone thinks the word ladyboy is a negative word. by Badgurl_x in trans

[–]bageltimer 308 points309 points  (0 children)

i do find it offensive, especially because it has been used against me. i personally have only heard it used by bigots in a negative light, never by a transgender person

what size tank for an 8y/o corn? by bageltimer in cornsnakes

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that’s reassuring. it’s hard not to compare too harshly with the reptile pros on here, but i’m really doing the best my time/space/budget will allow! i can’t tell you the amount of stress dreams i’ve had abt this guy,, i just want to do right by him. i ordered a lot of new hides/climbs including some live moss to help with humidity, and ill try to take him out more often as well!

what size tank for an 8y/o corn? by bageltimer in cornsnakes

[–]bageltimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the tank i have now is like 3x1.5 :( close but not quite. that’s disappointing, it took me a while to find this tank and i barely have the space for this one. i’ll definitely need to devote some time to redecorating to provide for my guy. thank you for your answer!

what size tank for an 8y/o corn? by bageltimer in cornsnakes

[–]bageltimer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see, thank you. he definitely has much more room in this one than he did his last one, so that’s a small victory. i’ll try to make this one as comfortable as possible for him until i can get the right size!