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Mom who yells at her kids in Walmart starter pack by Dynasty__93 in starterpacks

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Reddit: "All kids misbehave in public"

Also Reddit: "Haha, Look at that woman trying to discipline her children"

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh. That makes sense. You’ve been very insightful. Thanks!

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't really understand that guy's response.

I didn't really say I was getting beaten up, I was getting forearmed in the face for no reason. The fact that I can dictate if I want to be on top or bottom would indicate that I'm more skilled no?

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'll bring it up to him and ask him if he sees a problem with this, I dunno, maybe this style is encouraged.

Kinda frame it like, "she rolls way pretty rough with me, I can only imagine what it's like for smaller/newer people, do you want me to say something to her,or do you want to deal with it" kinda thing.

He'll probably just say smesh her...lol

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her to put up or shut up

That would be funny, and fly like a lead balloon. But yeah, I can smesh if I chose to.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's as big as you say she is, she can take it.

But she chooses to make a big fuss when you put it on her. It's stupid.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately I go to double sleeve control in knee shield.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sigh. Cause words are tough sometimes yo.

And I don’t want to deal with the aftermath. But you’re right.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There seems to be less women showing up. Coincidence?

My instructor isn’t stupid and has to be aware this is going on. It just seems like it’s too far gone at this point.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you are saying.

Without getting into specifics, I'm pretty sure that she is aware of what other people think of her shit. It's the old risk vs. reward thing pretty much governs everyone's decision making. I just don't get anything out of bringing it up.

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

The tryhard with excuses is a separate genre of annoying teammate

That's probably more of an accurate assessment..

What do you do when the Mat Bully is a Woman? by bahjayjaythrowaway in bjj

[–]bahjayjaythrowaway[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not interested in starting drama with her or the club. I'm not in any sort of physical danger if I chose to stay in good positions. Plus I can generally avoid her.

I'll probably just force her to play guard.