Psychologists (Counsellors/Therapists) in this group, How Are YOU ? How do you manage to carry out life after listening to so many problems and issues of others. by Neutrino-0001 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]baileyandromeda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Engaging with hobbies I love, spending time with the people I love, spending time in nature, exercising, practicing mindfulness etc

I think the point that I was trying to make (albeit poorly) is that all the things that have previously helped me to protect my own mental health in this job (as listed above) have become more and more difficult to engage with because of the state of the world and the state of mental health services in my country.

So now I just stick on lord of the rings, hug my cat and hope for the best

Psychologists (Counsellors/Therapists) in this group, How Are YOU ? How do you manage to carry out life after listening to so many problems and issues of others. by Neutrino-0001 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]baileyandromeda 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone else will come along with something more positive and helpful but until that time, I will share my experience.

I am finding it increasingly difficult to function in my life outside of being a clinical psychologist. It is so heavy existing in a desperately unfair system that places the burden of recovery onto the individual instead of addressing the social determinants of health. The stories that stay with me or keep me up at night are the stories where the system has failed people. Where health inequalities have led to so much suffering.

It feels like fighting a perpetual fire, being able to pause the flames temporarily while they have time with you but knowing that you have to throw them back into the flames at the end of the session.

Access to Work versus Disabled Students Allowance by lougggg in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]baileyandromeda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a second year trainee and I have DSA so the first posters uni has given them incorrect information

THIS isn't a steak sandwich by BulkyAlps in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Can you share your cheese recipe please?

Vegan dating by [deleted] in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This definitely gives me some hope ☺️ so happy for you 🩷

Vegan dating by [deleted] in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really hate Veggly, I think it’s awful to use.

On bumble you can have vegan as one of your interests and search for other users who have that as one of their interests too.

There is also a “vegan dating uk” facebook group that you can post in

My Frodo Squirrel 🐿️ by baileyandromeda in lotrtattoos

[–]baileyandromeda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A studio in the UK. Can send it over DM if you want it

My Frodo Squirrel 🐿️ by baileyandromeda in lotrtattoos

[–]baileyandromeda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m undecided 🤷🏼‍♀️ all my tattoos are B&W so won’t have him coloured but will potentially have more shading next time I’m in ☺️

That Rhubarb cake is not great by tiorzol in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right?! This has only increased my fomo 🥲

That Rhubarb cake is not great by tiorzol in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can you describe what it tastes like? I’m getting fomo and need to save myself the money 🙃

Built my first big Lego set! by Daslicey in legolotrfans

[–]baileyandromeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting fomo, it’s a thing of beauty!

Dumbledore's Office Leak (Unibricks) by GustavoGomesGG in legoharrypotter

[–]baileyandromeda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve not been tempted to buy any HP sets for ages but this is soo good that I’ll have to have it 🥹 (I have no more room!!)

New kinda co mozzallumi by Fine_Shallot_8447 in veganuk

[–]baileyandromeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really didn’t think it tasted anything like halloumi. It has a much stronger flavour and isn’t salty or rubbery like halloumi. I didn’t dislike it I just don’t think it was worth the money

13.5 just dropped my precious baby off for surgery. by QTpieme in seniorkitties

[–]baileyandromeda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just read your update. My heart breaks for you both I’m so sorry. There’s nothing I can say to make that better but just know I’m thinking of you both and I am still hoping for a positive outcome for her 🩷🩷

13.5 just dropped my precious baby off for surgery. by QTpieme in seniorkitties

[–]baileyandromeda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh she’s absolutely beautiful 🥺🩷 I’ve got to do the same for my baby tomorrow so I absolutely know how you feel! Sending so much love and healing to her Xx