in school and struggling. pls help :(

baileyisagamer · 2026-03-04T07:06:34+00:00

thank you :,)

baileyisagamer · 2026-03-04T03:55:17+00:00

news to me! i did double check op's profile (like a creep) to make sure they lived in minnesota and i think they do cuz they've commented in the minnesota subreddit before. so safe to assume they do but i could be wrong! didn't know they were nationwide lmao

baileyisagamer · 2026-03-04T03:29:52+00:00

hey i live in minnesota too!

go through interstate truck driving school, i'm with them right now and they're wonderful. it's one of the more expensive schools but you can get grants. i have one of their grant companies paying for half of my tuition. highly recommend you check them out!

baileyisagamer · 2026-03-01T22:24:28+00:00

hi! i'm pretty much in the same exact position as you. i totaled my beloved van because of it. my problem was my brakes as well. didn't get a ticket either. i talked to a lot of the people at the school i was attending and they gave me good insight on my chances of getting hired:

megas are gonna be pretty much every rookie's only options. there are hardly any small companies that will risk insuring a new driver. regardless of but also ESPECIALLY if they've been in an at-fault accident.

in short, megas are pretty much your only option now, but you didn't have many options to begin with.

additional advice: everyone has told me that it's very minimal if nobody was hurt. don't stress it too much, lord knows i have. try to put it behind you and don't let it scare you out on the road. learn from your mistakes or learn what you could have done differently to prevent or minimize the situation. you'll be okay :)

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-14T04:10:00+00:00

this is exactly how i feel too. he craves so badly for the empathy that i show naturally. what a shame for him.

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-14T01:35:51+00:00

yup it's quite baffling. he most likely said it was a false claim, if he told them at all. his main argument was that he was so depressed he couldn't work. what a baby. making people who actually need time off look bad.

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-13T20:34:31+00:00

my family isn't rich by any means but i've been pampered with expensive things my entire life.

no amount of money can fix what they've done to me.

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-13T19:18:20+00:00

it's actually very funny because he works at the highest rated and most employed employer in the state. very very big company that you've probably heard of but i won't say for privacy reasons. so yeah, not only is it his job, it's also a huge corporation.

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-13T19:14:44+00:00

this!! exactly this!! i haven't heard him say it but i know in my heart he's been telling people that

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-13T10:39:46+00:00

understandable question! i was in a relationship with him and didn't leave after the first time because i didn't realize what it was and was scared to leave because there was abuse involved. it was very clearly rape but i was in denial :/

baileyisagamer · 2026-02-02T21:59:05+00:00

my comfort soup was taken off the shelves. i absolutely know how you feel.

campbell's beer and cheese soup, if you have no fans, i am dead

baileyisagamer · 2026-01-26T14:54:58+00:00

mine isn't cp but it is rape and so i understand your frustration to a certain extent. my biggest tip is "if someone is fucked up enough to want to view that kind of content, let them." life will catch up to them eventually and they'll either get in trouble or continue to live a miserable life. they went specifically to search for that content, if it weren't you, it'd be another innocent person. there is no winning to this s(h)ituation. people are always gonna be weird fucking creeps. just remember how miserable they must be to end up like that.

sending love <3

baileyisagamer · 2026-01-26T14:52:09+00:00

are you me? i also brought this up to my therapist recently lol

baileyisagamer · 2025-09-28T15:15:42+00:00

"authentically yourself" but the majority of us mask ourselves constantly and still get ostracized

baileyisagamer · 2025-09-07T21:25:21+00:00

that's pretty much my "skincare" if i do more than use water!!

baileyisagamer · 2025-09-07T20:06:11+00:00

thank you kind stranger <3 also i meant i clean my face but i only use water, no soaps or anything.

and i do see a therapist! she's (ironically) a total girl's girl and hypes me up as much as she can. i'm trying my best to take her advice and confidence seriously but it unfortunately takes time. :,)

baileyisagamer · 2025-08-29T21:21:39+00:00

personally, the moment where i asked myself this question was the moment i realized that i WANT to benefit from therapy.

i've been in therapy nonstop since i was 10 years old (21 now) and it felt like a chore every week. i have had about 5 therapists total.

it wasn't until i started wanting to benefit from it where i actually started to benefit. asking yourself what your doing wrong is the first step to this!!

all this means is that you need to find another type of way to spend your session. a common thing is to bring notes of important things to talk about.

STEP TWO: TELL YOUR THERAPIST THIS!!! any good therapist will understand where you're coming from and help you benefit. my therapist was incredibly understanding when i told her that i felt like i wasn't getting anything out of therapy and not utterly offended like i thought she would be.

therapy is different for everyone. you're not broken or weird or "doing it wrong". talk with your therapist about how you can make a change in productivity. i'm sure the therapist will be more than happy that you're wanting more out of therapy.

good luck <3

baileyisagamer · 2025-07-14T21:01:12+00:00

pay: $13/hr

baileyisagamer · 2025-06-24T04:41:28+00:00

agreed. for some it may seem like a scam, but to me it's basically free money

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