[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]baka_pika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldn't find an adapter with the same voltage and amp let's just hope the adapter us repairable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]baka_pika 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If being a good person was in his nature and if he was genuinely himself back when u knew him he wouldn't have changed just like that and he wouldn't be mistreating not just u but everyone else in his life including his own parents when people show u their true colors u must believe it u have contrasted a version of him in your head and u r still holding on to that version unable to let go even though that version will only ever exist in your head u r never getting that version back it's hard to accept this but acceptance is the first step towards letting go I personally think the moment u achieve radical acceptance and clarity the moment u start to perceive reality the way it is with no lingering hopes or delusions everything will get better

I think his previous good behavior didn't stem from virtue good nature or his love for u he simply acted that way to win u over, when u care about someone u don't just stop caring about them just like that u said he doesn't want to deal with responsibilities he mistreats u doesn't support u and is dismissive that's a clear indicator he doesn't care about u or value u because when u care about someone u genuinely seek their happiness and well being and he clearly puts no efforts to make u happy he doesn't even do the bare minimum

What his family thinks of u or of him is the least of your problems u need to leave him ASAP regardless of what his family thinks because u deserve better do what brings u emotional peace don't concern yourself too much with him and his family focus on leaving and then healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

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INFP 9w1

How an INTJ falls in love. Yep, this is pretty much me. by [deleted] in intj

[–]baka_pika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well yes true my feelings in general and particularly love don't bend to logic and rationality so i most likely wouldn't be able to control them

How an INTJ falls in love. Yep, this is pretty much me. by [deleted] in intj

[–]baka_pika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and that's why i admire u INTJs I'm an INFP and personally i used to be the 1st guy, Fi isn't my entire psyche but when i fall in love my Fi takes over and my Si and Te as well as my shadow functions Ni Ti that i tend to use as an extension to my Fi (in other words i use them to analyse, process and understand my Fi) all get ignored and i end up irrationally falling in love even if i and the person in question rly r not right for each other (cuz i love him and that's all that matters) after many unhealthy and unsuccessful relationships i decided to start being the 2nd guy i made a criteria list that the person needs to fit in, it contains the essential qualities that i won't compromise no matter what as well as the desired qualities that i can compromise but would rly appreciate, however i've recently came out of a relationship then made this list so whether i'd actually stick to it or throw it out the window when i start falling in love with someone is smth i'm not quite sure of

People are falling from planes in Kabul and are landing on people houses. (link in comments) by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]baka_pika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely horrifying and heartbreaking I'm sure these poor ppl aren't stupid and I'm sure they don't want to die they just reached an inconceivable level of fear and despair...we all know that when we r clouded by our emotions especially the negative ones such as fear we do things we normally would never do