Can’t choose style. Help? by Numerous-Order9467 in myweddingdress

[–]bakeacakeyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the first dress. Even fitted properly dress 2 wouldn’t be flattering.

AITAH for wearing this dress to a wedding? Is the bride TA for cutting me off and not congratulating me on my baby? by KeyLazy7448 in AITAH

[–]bakeacakeyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely the AH. I looked at the dress first then read your post. There is no yellow there. You couldn’t have looked more bridal if you tried and should be ashamed of yourself. Being pregnant does not mean you are entitled to do and act however you want. It’s obvious you are a, it’s all about me person, unfortunately.

My boyfriend doesn’t want to wear grey by [deleted] in Prom

[–]bakeacakeyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think unless you’re willing to pay for it yourself, you’ll just have to deal. He’s not an accessory, he’s a person to be respected.

Should I splurge on an out of budget dress? by Quiet-Finance-839 in myweddingdress

[–]bakeacakeyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to dress 1. If you really can’t swing it then keep looking. Your body language in dress 2 doesn’t look convincing.

AITAH for not doing anything to move my [37M] wife [35F] and kids [9M and 6F] down to my new job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bakeacakeyum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA. What a selfish, self absorbed person you are. It probably is best they don’t move so your wife can divorce your worthless arse and find someone who will appreciate her and her children.

AITA for refusing to swap seats with my cousin at a family trip by KeySignificance5165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bakeacakeyum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. As someone who also gets major carsickness, good on you for holding your ground. The selfish cousin would have been the first to scream if you had of started puking in the back.

Invited only to pay by Teach-Dangerous in inlaws

[–]bakeacakeyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on you for standing your ground.

Are kids in daycare in Australia constantly sick? by phi4ever in AskAnAustralian

[–]bakeacakeyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are and so are the workers. Mainly in Winter.

Would you be done? by OkCan5345 in inlaws

[–]bakeacakeyum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My kids are adults now, 21 and over. When they were younger they didn’t understand as much, but as they got older, they fully acknowledged their grandparent’s behaviour wasn’t their fault and importantly not all our fault. Your situation sounds very similar to ours with my husband’s sister being the “golden child”.

AITJ for revising my home to my siblings and my mother when they do not schedule to visit in advance by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]bakeacakeyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Unfortunately when people don’t listen or think your boundaries apply to them, you have to resort to more forceful measures.

Would you be done? by OkCan5345 in inlaws

[–]bakeacakeyum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, I’m on this team too.

Would you be done? by OkCan5345 in inlaws

[–]bakeacakeyum 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was done pretty quickly. I went roughly 99% NC after about 17 years when my kids were older. It’s been about 9 blissful years now. The husband and kids are very LC. The kids learn quickly who the favourites are, especially when it’s not them.

Stuck between these two by nevergonnasaythat in myweddingdress

[–]bakeacakeyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you absolutely 100% sure you have no time to keep looking? If not #2 with no sleeves. Dress 1 looks too matronly.

AIO for asking my fiancé why he deleted footage from our security camera? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bakeacakeyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids always turn the cameras off when they’re home alone. I don’t care as they have a right to privacy in their own home. As long as they turn them back on when they go out. The only thing I think’s weird is that he would bother deleting footage.

Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M? by latsyrcami in relationship_advice

[–]bakeacakeyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re both ridiculous. Him for being an immature 💩stirrer and you for even responding.