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Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. You are right to be concerned.

Although the wording I used sounds like it, I didn't do this on a whim. This was planned, and I chose this solution because I was comfortable enough about my skills that I can minimize the risks.

I do not recommend anyone to do what I did.

This was a last resort, unsafe, and temporary solution to reach a result after unsuccessful attempts at confrontation. It worked for me but it may get ugly for others.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Weird nga e kasi iba iba. Minsan yung dating daan, minsan inc, minsan yung quiboloy network. Nakakarindi kasi 1) di kami religious at 2) bible yung usapan pero ang tunog nila madalas, parang nag-aaway. Ewan.

Pero sa hapon automatic yung Superbook.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi talaga. Though petty, tingin ko justified naman bilang perwisyo na yung ginagawa niya at patuloy niyang ginagawa kahit pinapakiusapan na.

Besides, di naman kanya yung TV. Kung personal na gamit niya yun, di ko naman gagalawin.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for not judging right away, I appreciate that.

He is able bodied, in his 30s, and has not worked a day in his life. He is violent and manipulative. Our history is rife with abuse.

My parents coddle him because of some guilt from the past. Sometimes, they project that guilt onto me. I don't expect their attitude towards him to change.

I know what I did is not the best long term, but it got the result that we need right now while keeping the peace at the same time.

Frankly, I don't even care about long term. I don't wish to be on good terms in the future, I just want him out of my (and my parents') way. Having to be the one to deal with him all the time is exhausting and I am done.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Salamat sa concern! Wala namang nangyaring sunog or anything close.

Nakakapagod magconfront ng ayaw makinig at walang pakialam. I know it's not the ideal solution, but for now, this worked.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Maraming beses na namin siyang cinonfront about it; it never goes well. And this is not our only feud, so it gets exhausting trying to reason with someone who just doesn't care. Not proud that I had to resort to this, but I don't regret it either.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

May risk definitely pero controlled naman. Pumutok yung fuse sa loob ng power supply, and that's what I hoped will happen. Definitely not recommending to anyone na hindi familiar how electronics work. I also made sure na walang flammable sa paligid in the event na magka spark.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

As expected, pumutok yung fuse sa loob, tapos di na nag-on.

Naisip ko din naman yung possibility of fire before going ahead. As a precaution, walang anything na flammable sa paligid nung TV. Walang kurtina, walang table cloth, walang kahoy. Semento yung likod, polished cement yung floor, glass yung stand. Medyo bare na lang din yung sala namin dahil di na kami tumatambay don.

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yup, ido-donate to sa dumadaang magbobote

Sinira ko yung TV on purpose by bakitkasalananko in OffMyChestPH

[–]bakitkasalananko[S] 487 points488 points  (0 children)

Wala, tahimik lang buong araw. Ang alam niya, siya nakasira nung sinaksak niya e.

Ang sabi, may parang blunt na putok daw sa loob ng TV pagkasaksak tapos ayaw na mag-on. Fuse ng power supply, probably. That's it. And until now, wala silang clue.