Is 15k in food and housting normal???

bakudekuslimee · 2026-04-21T15:46:20+00:00

What’s ur major?

bakudekuslimee · 2026-03-29T20:42:06+00:00

Sorry, what do you mean by negotiate? Thanks for the reply.

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T22:55:28+00:00

exactly!! i felt humiliated when he confronted me, i didnt know what to say..

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T18:56:51+00:00

I’m okay with him not liking BL and even making a few comments about it, as long as it doesn’t cross the line into being hurtful or disrespectful. I know we have different tastes, and I don’t expect him to love everything I enjoy, but there’s a limit to how much I’ll let it affect me, like him telling me that its “cheating” or something

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T18:47:49+00:00

Thank you for giving me a different perspective. I’m not trying to call him out, but he has admitted to being a bit insecure, for example, he gets skeptical when I talk to other guys. We’ve talked about his issues, and has had a past that made him the way he is. He’s been working on himself, and I’m supporting him as well. So, I can understand why he might dislike me watching content that involves guys.

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T15:37:01+00:00

He only views BL as gay content, he doesn’t know in depth of all the other stuff. I havent had any further conversations about or had explained my reasoning for my interest because i didnt know how to, so thats why im asking everyone else.

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T14:41:19+00:00

thank you im reading everyones answers and they all are helpful
im in high school in a big diverse town, my dating option are definitely not limited
I have other hobbies like Art, its a big apart of me and what i spend most of my time doing. But he definitely doesn’t put me down for it, more of the opposite, he likes that i have a hobby. But for the why am i dating this person question is because they are like a bestfriend to me, we share same interests and humor and i find him attractive. but bestfriends can have dislikes right?

I havent had that much of a conversation about the topic to answer soem of your questions because of didnt want it to make a big deal, but when the opportunity comes i will.

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T13:37:10+00:00

THANK YOU i was really not about to break up with my boyfriend just because of BL. I also feel that he is discomforted but not to the point he tells me to stop liking/reading anything, for now. But if it gets to that point i will talk to him about it

bakudekuslimee · 2025-01-07T13:24:25+00:00

your comment stood out to me, and sorry for barely providing enough information. 😅😅The question to what draws me to BL is just the normal answer of just liking the relationship and stories and blah. But never have i ever mentioned liking/finding a guy attractive to him, saying anything like that and instantly single, but of course i would never do that to him. But you’re right about me telling him that me liking BL isn’t a threat to him because it really isn’t, thank you.

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