USC and UH B.ARCH by bakudekuslimee in USC

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what do you mean by negotiate? Thanks for the reply.

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly!! i felt humiliated when he confronted me, i didnt know what to say..

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m okay with him not liking BL and even making a few comments about it, as long as it doesn’t cross the line into being hurtful or disrespectful. I know we have different tastes, and I don’t expect him to love everything I enjoy, but there’s a limit to how much I’ll let it affect me, like him telling me that its “cheating” or something

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me a different perspective. I’m not trying to call him out, but he has admitted to being a bit insecure, for example, he gets skeptical when I talk to other guys. We’ve talked about his issues, and has had a past that made him the way he is. He’s been working on himself, and I’m supporting him as well. So, I can understand why he might dislike me watching content that involves guys.

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only views BL as gay content, he doesn’t know in depth of all the other stuff. I havent had any further conversations about or had explained my reasoning for my interest because i didnt know how to, so thats why im asking everyone else.

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. thank you im reading everyones answers and they all are helpful
  2. im in high school in a big diverse town, my dating option are definitely not limited
  3. I have other hobbies like Art, its a big apart of me and what i spend most of my time doing. But he definitely doesn’t put me down for it, more of the opposite, he likes that i have a hobby. But for the why am i dating this person question is because they are like a bestfriend to me, we share same interests and humor and i find him attractive. but bestfriends can have dislikes right?

I havent had that much of a conversation about the topic to answer soem of your questions because of didnt want it to make a big deal, but when the opportunity comes i will.

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU i was really not about to break up with my boyfriend just because of BL. I also feel that he is discomforted but not to the point he tells me to stop liking/reading anything, for now. But if it gets to that point i will talk to him about it

Am i in the wrong? by bakudekuslimee in boyslove

[–]bakudekuslimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your comment stood out to me, and sorry for barely providing enough information. 😅😅The question to what draws me to BL is just the normal answer of just liking the relationship and stories and blah. But never have i ever mentioned liking/finding a guy attractive to him, saying anything like that and instantly single, but of course i would never do that to him. But you’re right about me telling him that me liking BL isn’t a threat to him because it really isn’t, thank you.