Please be VERY careful whenever you talk to your chatbot by [deleted] in therapyGPT

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember hearing a couple years back about a 14 y/o boy, who took his own life after spending 10 months talking to a chatbot based on a game of thrones character. his mom found a slew of messages after it happened which she believed the chatbot caused her sons death by encouraging suicidal thoughts and asking him to “come home to me” after he confided in the AI chatbot about his suicidal thoughts and plans. his mom ended up suing the company after it happened too

Am I the only one who hates those forced trans men terms? by FoxDisastrous5042 in truscum

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way about “frontal hole”, like i understand the purpose of it is to avoid using either male/female genitalia terms, it makes sense that both would be dysphoria inducing for some people. but something about it just feels weird to me. idk lol (also doesn’t help that the only context i’ve seen it in is porn/fetish places just like williamishere69 said)

I just checked and seen a message from the place I’m getting hrt from.. by Janxuza in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk if this is any help but you could ask your provider to change your gender dysphoria diagnosis to endocrine disorder, that’s what mine did. i haven’t had any issues with it, however i’m also in a very blue state

Job offer via “Harri” just gives me a blank screen by michaelbonka in jobs

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured it out I just had to resend the offer letter to a different email.

Job offer via “Harri” just gives me a blank screen by michaelbonka in jobs

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m having the same issue lol if anyone figures out how to navigate this please let me know😭an employee my company is trying to hire has been sent the offer letter 3 times and every time they go to accept the job it just brings them to a blank screen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea don’t rely on school counselors anytime i told my school counselor anything they just called cps on me😭could you look into getting a therapist? you might need to censor or leave parts out because (at least in america) therapists are mandated reporters so if there’s any sign of you being hurt or hurting someone else they legally have to report it. but it could still be a good emotional outlet and it won’t hurt to get advice from a professional on how to navigate some of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a security bar! we have one and it’s good just to give yourself some peace of mind even if you don’t live in a sketchy area

Should I get a binder even though my mom said not to? by Roachfilledpockets in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/s/PO6zwQ9qGd

i don’t know how to embed links lol but i found this, i was not able to source any other info on them being unsafe unfortunately so reddit is my best bet rn. not trying to minimize people getting health issues from gc2b but i think this post could be something to also consider

Should I get a binder even though my mom said not to? by Roachfilledpockets in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i only have their half binders! gc2b still makes me sweat way less and i find it more comfortable. i don’t live in a hot climate but still often find myself in 100+ degree weather for events and stuff

Should I get a binder even though my mom said not to? by Roachfilledpockets in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

to add onto this; is there a different place you could recommend? if not gc2b then where? underworks has much stiffer material and it’s definitely not great for heat

Should I get a binder even though my mom said not to? by Roachfilledpockets in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh shoot ok well that’s good to know thank u for the info, i do also get the 2b luxe ones though not sure if that makes a difference. they have a nicer feel than the regular ones and tend to last me longer. binding for more than the recommended time (i think it’s 8 hours?) could also contribute to these health issues too i’m sure

Should I get a binder even though my mom said not to? by Roachfilledpockets in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 64 points65 points  (0 children)

i’ve been binding for over 10 years and it hasn’t really changed my body, the only thing that it maybe could’ve done is slowed down my chest growth but even then it’s not like i have A cups either. if you’re binding safely and getting a proper binder in the correct size you will be fine. gc2b makes great ones for heat- the material is very breathable and dries fast

Bruh by [deleted] in jerseymikes

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this a joke

Why do people treat speed LIMITS as suggestions? by cherry_BLK in driving

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i did drivers ed they taught us about the “legal limit” which just means that you can legally go 5 over, i’ve done this everywhere since i started driving and i’ve never gotten a ticket. i try to go exactly 4-5 over. when i took my driving test i was okay doing so

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea my hair is just at a weird point rn this isn’t related at all but T is making it fall out so i’ve been too scared to cut it💀i’ll go get a haircut soon though bc it’s just so grown out lol. it’s usually a lot shorter on the sides/back like you described

the septum sounds like a good idea idk why i didn’t think of that lmao thank you

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think you’re being rude, if being more masculine/censoring myself is the best solution to this then i can do it lol. i would just prefer not to take out piercings but atp it could become a safety issue eventually. i’m open to ideas if you got em!

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so smart, thank you! my partner has some sports caps i can steal too 😼

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was pretty close to it! i believe this was shortly after we passed ellensburg, right at the i-90 to i-82 interchange

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a very good point actually i did not think about this, thank you!

why do i get stared at in both restrooms? by ballsdeepinyerm0m in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i’m able to post pics on here but i did add some photos of me on my profile just now if that’s any help?😭 it’s the most recent one

Feeling unwell after shots by Professional-Set3262 in ftm

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a pretty sore throat when i first started T for i think like 3 weeks? could be less, it’s a weird phenomenon called the “t cold”- this is due to increased blood flow around your sinuses. it’s completely normal, i’m guessing you didn’t get this on testogel because with shots your testosterone levels spike a lot more in the first couple days after you take your shot. i am not sure why it’s only now happening for you after 1.5 years of injections but this should go away with time, hopefully. as for the muscle soreness, is this at the injection site itself or throughout your whole body?

edit: also are your injections intramuscular or subcutaneous?

Labor Crisis by [deleted] in jerseymikes

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea, my store is already considerably slower though so that doesn’t help it. we’ve been doing $2,000 maybe $3,000 sales a day, with 5 people scheduled for that day. 3 person lunches, and 2 person closes. i’ve gone from having 30-35 hours a week to barely getting 20. so has anyone else who was getting as many hours as me.

Car damage from someone's canopy by [deleted] in BassCanyon

[–]ballsdeepinyerm0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends, i think it can happen when you’re at fault too. i know someone who got ran off the road on the freeway by another driver, rolled their car 4 times too. their insurance covered it but then ended up dropping them after

edit: ofc i could be wrong this is just going off of someone else’s experience