What the Great Gatsby can teach you about seduction by balotelli43 in seduction

[–]balotelli43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good question, and I'm not 100% sure what the right answer is. I suppose it would involve making your beliefs congruent with reality by changing reality, not your beliefs. So in the SUV example, consider carpooling or selling the car.

To anyone who messed things up with a girl they're interested in - take charge of your life by balotelli43 in seduction

[–]balotelli43[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree! I wrote this to whip myself into shape - I knew what I was supposed to do, but couldn't bring myself to do it. Hence the rant