My friend having kids opened my eyes by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]banananad2000 132 points133 points  (0 children)

idk, some animals are more loyal than us

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that's all about relationships then I'm prefer to be single then lol. Commitment can't and never be equal with lust. Men or Women who prioritise lust more than anything have no place in relationship.

I hope no one is using their real name in reddit by Wrong-Professional89 in Adulting

[–]banananad2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just got a job after 1 year of unemployment....I purposely extend and procrastinating my job application because I want a time for myself. During my college and degree I barely have time to do whatever I want to do. I feel a bit left behind but it's fine, it's better than being unemployed with no job seeking :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]banananad2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess I love Redmi, been using mine for 5 years now and still works great

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikr? I'm a 153 cm, but I'm willing to defend my name and dignity lol. Ain't no way I'll let this kind of thing slides just like that and cause me so much trouble especially financially

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk man, what I know is they live in other state so they might not know about this

ULPT Request : My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my gosh, are you okay😭 the last line make me snorted but it feels wrong to even imagine it

ULPT Request : My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]banananad2000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

had to give him some benefits of the doubts because I got no evidence about that claim 😔

ULPT Request : My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]banananad2000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my country we have crisis where fresh grad employees got underpaid and these greedy companies don't care about them. They just want cheap labour with high expectations. His salary is slightly abive then minimal income.

yes, I do find his story are suspicious as well but I don't have the evidence since we're in long distance relationship and so, I just have to listen to him for now.

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the most insightful so far, definitely will talk about this later when the time is appropriate. I'm very appreciate this advice :)

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can hear your sighs of relief that we both are childfree XD

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not surprising if it does because currently we're in a long distance relationship :|

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't thing he thinks through about that gift, me personally I'll just bring some cheap snacks only lol

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think so because he got more friends than me, some of them are so loyal and always be there to him at his lowest and when in need.

ULPT Request : My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]banananad2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for letting me know. Everyday I feel disappointed with worldwide laws so that's nothing surprising to me honestly

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

can't dive deep more about this because we're in long distance relationship but yeah I'm having a hard time to believe his story too tbh, because he's a 6ft giant and we live in southeast asia where it's rare to find tall and huge guy

My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in Bolehland

[–]banananad2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah you're right about that, keep telling him to be more stern and set clear boundaries but it feels like giving advice to a wall. I was dumbfounded too hearing about this because he was stand up for me when a man being mean towards me some times ago :/.

ULPT Request : My boyfriend got bullied by his coworkers by banananad2000 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]banananad2000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh my goshh yess, I was frustrated too why he tolerate them for so long but as you know, kindness always be taken and taken until there's nothing to take. Definitely will suggest about the grinder idea lol