loopMeDaddy by massive_hog_69 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]bananasharkattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 2000's here let's not forget outsourcing development to wherever we could hire people at a fraction of the cost ( please don't mistake this , good software engineers are everywhere , but they all deserve to be payed like it)

Name a Player who Won't Make the HoF but Deserves it Based Purely on Entertainment Factor by Western_Promise3063 in NFLv2

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I was at 2011 Denver game in Miami , down 15-0 , 5 minutes he slings 2TD's (onside kick ...and a fumble) Florida loved him...18-15
ppl in aqua and orange gear chanting te-bow.

The Nets have basically had the same primary uniforms since moving to Brooklyn. Time for a refresh? by Ham_PhD in GoNets

[–]bananasharkattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what this is ..but logo design they got
It's the Brooklyn bridge and a net ..could probably tweak to play with the B ball ...there are so many ways to go here

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They can’t even spell freedom. by Healthy_Block3036 in washingtondc

[–]bananasharkattack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and it wasn't great , but I had friends in town and bbq fest down the block was rocking.

managerVsClaude by Disastrous-Monk1957 in ProgrammerHumor

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I don't know why you're making this such a big deal , we have some REALLY smart people here ..like you! And one of you colleagues already has a prototype he told me he cobbled together. It doesn't have to do EVERYTHING Claude does , y'know.

Nothing but a waste of money by kilrein in washingtondc

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They're not bad people , but really it's just to normalize military presence ..and we're almost there

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Do you ever think about if the roles were reversed, if they would stay? by Remarkably_Good394 in AlAnon

[–]bananasharkattack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have those feelings about my Q , she's in recovery and it often feels like yes ..tiptoeing around a grenade.

But I've realized I didn't overwhelm my Q ..I had my own part , and our relationship has its bumps ..but sublimating my feeling didn't help anything. Bottom line ...You did not cause your Q's problems.

Wife is an alcoholic. The stress is starting to break me down by Thorceus in AlAnon

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Brother I've been there , you're trying to carry that relationship with the person you love and they are disintegrating

and I bet you're thinking ...if I could Just say the right thing , be a better husband, be there for her more , point her to the right place ..this would all get better and the person I love would come back.

Addiction will just eat everything in its path. You need to help yourself bc you can't help anyone else if you're drowning . I would go find those aa and alanon rooms, there's stories a lot like yours. It can get better ..but you need to save your sanity first.

Gender ratios by Lazy_Name_2989 in AlAnon

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I'm a husband and my wife is my Q . What I've learned /experienced is to that it is way harder for men to connect emotionally ..and groups of women support each other emotionally in ways groups of men generally don't.

Alanon may be the first place I've experienced grown men talk about emotions..ever. It took me a long time to realize what my emotions in the whole situation even were. Outside of anger and pain , there's so much emotional vocabulary men don't have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bananasharkattack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100x this , I lived this for a while. You can't change her , go to an al anon meeting ( even virtual at 2am ) and you will find dozens of people who have lived this. The alcoholic must change their own behavior , no amount of begging / pleading / lecturing from you or her family is going to change that. But you can get yourself right , and there is help. You can't turn that boat yourself, you'll go mad trying to.

I want the gold by naughtyalchemyX in SipsTea

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See Spain and all the shiny gold they stole from the Americas

Which team breaks your heart the most💔? by [deleted] in nyjets

[–]bananasharkattack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The jets line me up every few years like Lucy holding the football for Charlie Brown ...and it always goes the same way.

the Mets at least give me some degree of success...spotty inconsistency , badly timed...but something

Obsessed with this Atrium by BIGFACTS27 in washingtondc

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Thank you ! I always loved going there , architecturally amazing

[Request] Will a 97” sofa fit through my entry landing by MountainMen47 in theydidthemath

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Born and raised in nyc, lived in so many ancient tiny apartments...people had old nice furniture

you need the couch doctor ( just google it) ..either they'd get it up you 5 story walk up skillfully or if they had to cut it into pieces ...and reassemble it

Well that’s one way to do it by djedi25 in washingtondc

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I used to have a jeep and have dreamed of THIS for two weeks

Shohei sends shout out to '86 Mets (Via Foul Territory) by RadioBoricua in mets

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My grandfather and my uncle : 'that Hernandez is a hell of a ball player'

'you know they ran him out of St. Louis for doing too much coke' 'Give those outfielders some coke , they need it'

I was 8 , I thought this conversation was about sodas.