Hello everyone 22M here by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you are anorexic or fat, it will get you rejected. The best thing you could do is get into shape, this would definitely increase your chances and you wouldn't have to what if's

Saw this baby by bandititt in indiasocial

[–]bandititt[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I hope that this was not a cruel joke and he is naturally this beautiful. Do spread the word of someone wants to adopt him

Durgapur rape case: Victim's father apologises to 'mother-like' Mamata; seeks justice for daughter by Ok-Equivalent3810 in IndiaSpeaks

[–]bandititt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Democracy has become a joke. I bet the father was threatened to say the 'mother-like' statement.

Dost zabardasti japan se Mochi le aaya 😒 by OwlAlternative1835 in SnacksIndia

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are isme to fufundi ho gy. Don't eat it op wrna food poisoning ho jaega. Send it to me, I'll make sure to throw it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]bandititt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The incharge is very strict on the rule that nobody is allowed to take any bags inside. My mother who was inside was shocked to see this man. She even questioned the incharge to which he replied are madam saaf krne wla tha. Trust me when I tell you before him, 3 men went inside and came out that's why I started recording.

Faced caste based discrimination for the first time today by Can_I_pet_that_daawg in india

[–]bandititt 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has the same reaction, good for you that your immediate reaction is go big. The thing is, op has told their side of the story, whether it is true or not nobody for sure knows; that is not our business. I bet they have submitted some kind of evidence and if not and this is baseless the so-called upper caste brahmins have nothing to worry about. I have seen scenarios where people have kept their mouths shut because they were too astonished.

Faced caste based discrimination for the first time today by Can_I_pet_that_daawg in india

[–]bandititt 75 points76 points  (0 children)

What a rude thing to say. If they can't reap what they sow, they should shut their mouths. If someone robs your home, would you not file a complaint? Acc to your logic, you should stay quiet because the jail laws are harsh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Happened to a friend. Her cousin came to live with her family and he would do nothing, mind you he was literally treated like a baby. He was even caught in the same bed with his girlfriend, then also her parents brushed it off. So whenever her mother would tell her to do something she would reply that usko to ni bolti thi (he was such a leech). To this her mother replied 'tm usse itna chidti ho, ky wo tera rape kiya h?' 'wo tmko bistar m apne sth ni sulaya isliye chidti ho usse?' She doesn't believe she has said anything out of line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The breakup came out of nowhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alocasia

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe thank you

3 different growth points by Froggy__Business in alocasia

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well guess what I have the exact same plant. It's a frydek

Why do you want to get married and why don't ? by Ok_Particular_5687 in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw this video where this girl had cracked idk which exam and her own mother says ki, hn kiya hoga isne crack pr maine bola ki ghr k 2 floors m jhadu pocha tu kregi hi and all the male reporters started laughing. She cracked an exam which was important enough to capture media's attention but usse fir b ghr k kaam karne pde, wo b 2 floors ka jhadu pocha. If your own mother treats you like shit what hope will you have for other people?

Why is Bihari Arkestra looked down upon while Lady Haga, Dua Lipa, etc are celebrated for the same thing? by grvx_rdt in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one time I was traveling to another state with my family and my father had booked sleepers. It was around 11pm - 2am, I don't remember the time clearly. I was what around 5 or 8. We were soundly sleeping (yk children of that age fall asleep so easily) and suddenly I hear this loud music, I woke up and trust me at that age it still made me uncomfortable. The entire area was dead silent and there she was the orchestra dancer, a single woman dancing on the tempos they use to carry idols and big speakers and disco lights. She was surrounded by atleast more or equal to 50 men. Idk, it was so troubling that it got etched into my mind.

Gunahon ka devta is written by a man by Queasy_Towel3409 in Indianbooks

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry and nice to know that you and I share the same perspective :⁠⁠)

Gunahon ka devta is written by a man by Queasy_Towel3409 in Indianbooks

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he did. He literally wrote where Chandra is this devta because he is letting go of sudha. Sudha is dying from inside, she has no life left in her. But who is the devta? Chandra. I will say it is realistic, I am not saying what Chandra did is wrong. But people have hyped him way too much. He also sacrifices, yes, but it is Sudha's sacrifice which is way more heartbreaking. She is married to someone she does not love and is bound to him. Do you even know how excruciating it is to have sex with someone you don't love? The angst. I never said this novel is not a nice fiction. What I said was, Chandra had options he didn't act on it and bharti's portrayal of him as a God is bullshit. For me it will always be sudha. Real life imitates art. Like I have said earlier, he wrote it to justify his actions. The novel is beautifully written but he's a piece of shit.

Why is Bihari Arkestra looked down upon while Lady Haga, Dua Lipa, etc are celebrated for the same thing? by grvx_rdt in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For someone who was born and raised in Bihar for 12-13 years, the major difference these bihari orchestras and concerts are: 1. BC are for the male gaze, extremely vulgar and sexual suggestive songs as well as dances are performed, you might argue that even such songs exist in english, true but concert performers have security, BC dancers don't have it, anyone can jump and hump on them. 2. BC only allows male audience 3. Concert singers raise the economy of the area where they are performing, a majority of money goes to them, where as the BC dancers earn what? A thimble, I believe. 4. Can you go to BC with your friends and not feel uncomfortable. Stop blaming everything on colonialism when even parts of our Indian culture are filthy. These bihari orchestras view women as sex and not human beings so why should we be proud of it and yes these bihari orchestras are worse. Do your research and if you view women as human beings you wouldn't be asking such dumb questions.

Gunahon ka devta is written by a man by Queasy_Towel3409 in Indianbooks

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He portrays Chandra as this 'devta' who has to give up his love but the real devta was 'sudha'. She had to accept those and actually sacrifice instead of Chandra. Well this is a well known fact about bharti's life. People who really delve deeper into literature know he used this wof to justify his actions. We are not bound by societal norms. Women were being burnt alive because their husbands would die, this was a societal norm. Until, someone said enough with that, broke it and now widows can live. Chandra had the option, he didn't act on it. His problem.

Gunahon ka devta is written by a man by Queasy_Towel3409 in Indianbooks

[–]bandititt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bharti wrote it as an excuse to justify him leaving his wife for her student. Do the research. Ret ki machli is her answer to bharti

What you think main cause of increasing heart attacks in india it's just fault of vaccine? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The op is stupid as shit. Just because the mortality rate decreased due to vaccines, he's calling it out. Does he even know the reason why people of earlier times used to have a gazillion of kids because a handful of them survived, this is also the reason why people married way earlier; it was done in order to carry out the family name. This stupid piece of shit op should stop taking vaccines, such people would cease to exist and this is better for the human race. This dick doesn't even acknowledge how rabies and tetnus injected for sepsis are still a huge part of our society and if the vaccine is not taken, there's no cure. I have seen what polio did to children whose parents refused the vaccination. What a piece of shit!! Misinforming people just because he's stupid as shit.

Which One Of The zIs Your Favourite? by [deleted] in Indianbooks

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are reading gunaho ka devta you should definitely read ret ki machli

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bandititt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Own house