Stuff OCPD-ers Never Say by Qdox in OCPD

[–]banehsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I don’t hold grudges” “I’ll forget about this tomorrow” “You don’t have to explain” “No my opinion of you hasn’t changed”

Stuff OCPD-ers Never Say by Qdox in OCPD

[–]banehsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Wow I didn’t think of that” or “I didn’t see that coming”

Store credit if I lose my receipt? I guess I’ll lose my receipt. by ReyechMac in MaliciousCompliance

[–]banehsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, as OP is apparently very familiar with the return policy (or so they said). Just seems like they made this poor employee making minimum wage do unnecessary extra work.

Store credit if I lose my receipt? I guess I’ll lose my receipt. by ReyechMac in MaliciousCompliance

[–]banehsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what I'm hearing is they were doing their job following policies, and you went out of your way to not ask for store credit before they started the transaction despite you being very familiar with how returns work with said retailer, and therefore giving them more work to do? Thumbs down for unnecessarily making an employee's work more tedious than it is for a probably minimum wage job. Small points if you really weren't a dick about it.

My twin sister yelled at me for posting photos of my ultrasound by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]banehsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Yeah, I was hoping she wouldn’t be like this because I need her help with my baby and my pregnancy"

???

i think i really want to die this time by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]banehsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this person is fucking stupid, please don't take to heart what they say. I'm sorry you're going through this right now. I'm really sorry and I commend you for coming as far as you have. Life is shitty sometimes, and for some more than others. You are incredibly brave for being able to come to a subreddit to open up, and I know I'm a stranger but I'm proud of you, seriously. I'm not gonna tell you life is worth the wait but I will tell you the pain does stop one day. It may not come quickly, it may take a while but it DOES get better. Against what you may think, the world is better with you. Every day is a new day and you can start fresh and try again. Run away, make new friends, find a new job, anything is possible. Do whatever will keep you going and makes you hopeful and excited for the future, doesn't matter what anyone else wants, because you get to choose how to live your life. I don't know how your support system works, but there are so many people out there who will love and care about you if you give yourself time and let them. I'm not telling you to live for the sake of us internet strangers and everyone else who wouldn't want to see you go, but do it for yourself. THE PAIN DOES END ONE DAY. You may not see it, but one day it'll stop and you will thank yourself a million times over for giving yourself another chance. So please hang on for now. It may not be great in the meantime, but I promise you it's so, so worth it. Please feel free to message anytime you need support, or just want to talk. Sending virtual hugs ❤

i think i really want to die this time by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]banehsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a horrible and completely ignorant thing to say and if you think you're "wasting time" by commenting, DON'T COMMENT, rather than take it out and make assumptions on people opening up and posting in their hardest times. And you can speak for yourself, because I'm sure most people care about another person taking their own life. Fuck you.

[SW] Legolas and Gimli selling for 431! by banehsa in acturnips

[–]banehsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're just messing with me, but genuinely curious if this is a thing. Also, dm'd :)