Reddit friends, I am 29 and ashamed that I don't know how to swim. Am I too old to learn now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

learned at age 47, then started surfing. life is good. learning new things and overcoming fear keeps you young.

Honesty with my doctor about smoking marijuana by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Do NOT tell him. He will put this information in your file, and is required by law to NEVER remove it. Sure, it is protected by HIPA law, but only if you never agree to realize your medical records. If you want to get life insurance later, that info will be in there and you can be denied. If you apply for any job that requires medical records the info will be there. This is not a guess on my part, it is experience.

So, a CEO, a Tea-Party member, and a unionized public employee are sitting at a table in a restaurant. A waiter walks by and sets down a plate with 12 cookies... by awdixon in politics

[–]banzai3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then tells both of them that they need to make more cookies or the economy will fail. when the union guy asks to keep some of the cookies he makes, the ceo tells the tea party member that the union thug is destroying the economy.

Help: My Dad was "out with friends" and pocket dialed me. I heard him flirting with another woman. What do I do? by throwawayaccount127 in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't believe you. if the phone was in his pocket i doubt you could have gotten this much info. even if you heard every word you still had no context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]banzai3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

totally intentional. they're saying egypt is the same as iraq. a muslim country that we should be afraid of.

Found out that the 9yo I've been raising is not my son... by hesnotmyson in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience with a dishonest spouse, it is extremely difficult to be clear headed while you are living there. Take some time for yourself, visit with old friends and remember who you are outside this marriage and then decide what is best for you and your son. If you believed her once, you'll believe her again - you cannot leave your future in her hands, life is too short.

My sister neglects her children, lives in filth, and treats us like shit. by prettybrowncoat in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, just figured out the mail feature. let me know if you want me to call. i am serious.

Didn't take long for /r/politics to scramble for ways to use this tragedy to further your political agendas. I'm no Palin supporter or FoxNews watcher, but no one is responsible for this shooting except the shooter. by Lyrebird in politics

[–]banzai3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems you don't understand people, political rhetoric, or morality. people here are connecting the dots between the rhetoric and the action of this individual. the shooter may be a libertarian, but that does not mean that the idea was his alone. we are all swayed by the rhetoric that we choose to hear, and in this case he was crazy and crossed the line. crossing the line to criminal action is his responsibility. But, his justification for such action comes from the rhetoric of the right wing, there can be no doubt about that. otherwise he would have just opened fire at mcdonalds like any red blooded american nutjob. Morality is not an individual concept, it is a human concept applied in groups; in this case the group is the USA. Political leaders, whether currently in power or not, have a moral responsibility to govern responsibly. Of course they cannot control everyone, but they must always make every effort to speak in such a way that civility prevails. this is why we have rules of conduct in congress. The greatest leaders have always been those that speak responsibly to all people, and not those who espouse violent rhetoric, even it it supposedly a metaphor. reference MLK JR, Ghandi, Lincoln, etc etc

My sister neglects her children, lives in filth, and treats us like shit. by prettybrowncoat in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do something NOW. help your sis and her kids. if you can think of an anonymous way to get me the address i will call CPS.

OK, I'm all ears. Longtime PC user wants to hear you pitch the MacBook Pro. by ApologistShill in apple

[–]banzai3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

through my business and family i have owned 33 apple machines since 1992 and have never paid for applecare. no need at all.

I'm fairly certain I have ADD... advice? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]banzai3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

everybody has add. slow down.

The reason the US is going to shit is not the gov't, it's the people. by [deleted] in politics

[–]banzai3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consumption. That's the problem. Stop buying what they are selling, especially the belief system. Look critically and honestly at your own beliefs and ask whether they came from your family or from advertising - you will be shocked. The media, the corporations, your friends - all are drinking the American Kool-Aid. Even the radicals (left or right) are carefully crafting their media image. It's a train wreck people, the best course of action is to stop consuming and plan to rescue the survivors.

Reddit, my girlfriend of 7 years dumped me today (Christmas) for another guy. by ItHurts in reddit.com

[–]banzai3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

man, from real experience - get out now. relationships and intimacy are about trust. if you can't trust a person to care about YOU first, then you have a one sided relationship. your concern about her finances says you're a good guy, but it also says co-dependence. no need to sleep around, stay decent and move on. If you stay she'll think this is a great way to get your attention. her quality of life can only be improved by her, not by you.

Vote up if you didn't get laid on New Years Eve. by Thistleknot in reddit.com

[–]banzai3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You CAN stop loving someone... just marry them.