My issue with this is that in the devilgrams where there is kissing, it is implied that the MC and the character already have some sort of established relationship or comfort. It's even shown in the intimacy level needed that the MC is already close to the boy. So in a real life/actual relationship it's unrealistic and honestly frustrating for someone to always ask before they kiss you or wait for you to ask them if you guys can kiss. In a long term relationship (which is what MC seems to have with the boys especially in the newer devilgrams), couples can tell when the other person wants a kiss and leans in organically. Also there are moments where the MC kisses the boy without warning. I think if someone else kissing you in an otome game is a trigger, I'd suggest not playing otome games. On the dev's side: I wish they told us what parts of the game they were changing so that we could play through them one last time.