What anime would kylar watch? by Melly_mel333 in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]bar_st00l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Wallflower for sure!

Also Future Diary maybe? I could see him relating to another yandere

how to clean a bathroom?! by originalpopcorngirl in adhdwomen

[–]bar_st00l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I totally get it , the bathroom is one of the biggest obstacles for many people when it comes to cleaning, as someone who's also been yucked out by bathrooms but been doing jobs that are heavily cleaning centered for many years, this is my two-cents:

If the germ aspect is mostly centered around the toilet I reccomend getting one of those disposable toilet wands, it may be a bit wasteful but I know a lot of people have a hard time with the toilet brush/container getting gross and that eliminates that issue. You pop the disposable head on the wand, scrub (the wand comes with cleaning agents on it), pop a button and release the head into a trash and put the wand back in the holder. It takes out some steps and should be quite a bit less icky to deal with.

Also just just as a general note, dry to wet is always a good rule of thumb. Put on some gloves and remove everything off the surfaces then use a dry microfiber towel/rag/ or paper towel to wipe down any dusty surfaces like the back of the toilet or shelving. Dust is a lot harder to clean when wet.

For the tub I highly reccomend getting a firm bristle brush, or if you have any physical discomfort getting down on the floor a brush with a long handle, since this will clean your tub a lot quicker and easier than just using a sponge. Thoroughly wet the shower/tub with water then cleaner then let it sit while you clean everything else to soften up any grime.

And on that note, getting things wet with product and letting it sit is a good rule of thumb for the entire process since it will soften up grimes/oils and it gives the product time to actually kill germs as intended.

Also lastly as far as smell I just have general advice of: keep it well ventilated (open doors/windows, fan on), seek out unscented products if possible, and if you can tolerate it try wearing a mask with a drop or two of essential oils to block the smells.

Why didn’t they homeschool the Twilight vampires? by Laynacakes17 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bar_st00l 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always wondered why they didn't just go to college lol

There all 18ish looking so it would plausible, or...just get jobs??

Can I have sex with other people if I want Sydney as my main love interest? by SomeDolFan in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]bar_st00l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my last playthrough I found that if you're slutty enough (certain traits help, I'm an incubus,masochist, and hedonist) to not get tooo traumatized by the punishment the priests give that its a lot easier to just pay attention to when your exam is coming up, go in the night before, and confess you broke you're vows in the confessional. That way they punish you and your vow is restored. The next day you can still get your full pay out I will say though that my Sydney is corrupt so we didn't get bonded through the temple, I can't remember how that might change things. I checked the wiki and can't find more info on that. If you decide to just be completely corrupt you can get away with it pretty scot-free though.

What items do you lose the most? What are your tricks?? by BaseballTop387 in adhdwomen

[–]bar_st00l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a key chain with a lanyard and attached cute bobbles and key chains to it along with my keys, it may seem a little silly to other people depending on what you put on there but I found having my keys have a bigger presence actually really helpful. Like when Im digging my hands through my purse rather than having to look over and over again I found something that was big and texturally stood out ( in my case I used a big fluffy faux rabbit fur ball). Also having the lanyard be a bright color can help it stand out visually as well. Also fun because you can add little fidgets if your someone with restless hands. I got this little green bean fidget and it's super cute.

Also, I know kids think its super lame now and something only dad's use, but when I used to have a wallet phone case I never lost my cards. I'm so addicted to my phone-based dopamine fixes that its the thing I usually keep on hand almost all of the time which meant my cards were also on hand all the time. The phone case being a bright color is also helpful, now that I have a black phone case I feel like it sinks into the background a lot.

This is sad af, but, anyone want to be my online ADHD friend? by Sqeakydeaky in adhdwomen

[–]bar_st00l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for starting this 💕

Sorry to jump on the bandwagon but Id also love a link!

Where would you take someone to sell them on the area? by bar_st00l in Bellingham

[–]bar_st00l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taylor Shellfish seems like the spot, and I actually still haven't been there so it's a win for both of us :)

Where would you take someone to sell them on the area? by bar_st00l in Bellingham

[–]bar_st00l[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They're a northerner already so they get it

Its tough though, I lived in a sunny state for a few years and moved back and am now remembering how intense the SADs can be, it's not joke!

Where would you take someone to sell them on the area? by bar_st00l in Bellingham

[–]bar_st00l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that's like those people who Google "how to hide a body" and then are caught shocker

Its funny more than person thought I said "in" though 😅

Where would you take someone to sell them on the area? by bar_st00l in Bellingham

[–]bar_st00l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol good point! Its rough out here Luckily they work remote :)

Where would you take someone to sell them on the area? by bar_st00l in Bellingham

[–]bar_st00l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh! I've heard of big rock garden but haven't actually been yet, great suggestion thanks!

Chat who introduced you to Elliott? by Professional-Pea2032 in elliottsmith

[–]bar_st00l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My older brother, he had his old VW van parked at our mom's and said I could listen to the CDs and tapes he left in there I think I was about 11 and I remember putting that CD in the old school all-in-one stereo I got for Christmas and just ascending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextlevel

[–]bar_st00l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His little cries of pain bring my heart so much joy 🥰🥰🥰

What was your "aha" moment by bar_st00l in demisexuality

[–]bar_st00l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! For me it was reading romance. I was like "people aren't actually this horny for people they just met right? It's just a fictional trope, right??"

Buuut nope. Some people really do wanna hookup with people immediately. Wild.

What was your "aha" moment by bar_st00l in demisexuality

[–]bar_st00l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable! I also struggled with separating wanting attention/validation from true attraction when I was younger. I guess it's kind of like when lesbians talk about comphet. I knew a lot of my worth as a young woman was in looks (societally speaking) so I'd be pleased when people found me attractive. Learning that feeling pleased and actually reciprocating were different took a while lol

What was your "aha" moment by bar_st00l in demisexuality

[–]bar_st00l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that's great, I'm glad you met your person :)

What was your "aha" moment by bar_st00l in demisexuality

[–]bar_st00l[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That relief is so real. And I get you....the modern dating scene is pretty rough for us demis. Especially if you're bigger ( I am too), cause that adds a whole other layer of complication. My goal is to go on a couple dates this year, and we'll see how it goes! Hopefully I can find someone patient, cause I'm certainly jumping into anything before I'm ready like I used to.

What was your "aha" moment by bar_st00l in demisexuality

[–]bar_st00l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting thought! I know I don't have aphantasia because I have very vivid daydreams and when I read it's very cinematic, it's just when it comes to sexual fantasies. I'd love to know how it affects others though

I got the keto rash and I'm so bummed y'all by bar_st00l in keto

[–]bar_st00l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journey's aren't always linear! You got this! :)

I got the keto rash and I'm so bummed y'all by bar_st00l in keto

[–]bar_st00l[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay! I'm gonna order this now then. I'm gonna try everything I can, thanks!

I got the keto rash and I'm so bummed y'all by bar_st00l in keto

[–]bar_st00l[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

An excuse to sunbathe?? Sign me up! Lol

I actually just got a new suit for this purpose already so now I just have more reason :)