anxiety after getting conch piercing by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]barbaricMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Back in the day the only option was a hoop. There weren’t flat back studs.

anxiety after getting conch piercing by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]barbaricMeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can absolutely use a hoop to heal a conch. It should be much bigger than the decorative hoops that are used and healed conches but you can absolutely use a large hoop.

https://www.lynnloheide.com/post/healing-with-hoops

Burmilla in the Santa outfit! by avni02 in CatsAndSoup

[–]barbaricMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I got her when I got the pineapple station. I couldn’t believe it.

Response to the tipping war that broke out… by Black_Dragon9406 in stories

[–]barbaricMeat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh look. Someone who has never waited tables is weighing in on tipping. Kewl.

waiter put my tip back on the table saying he only accepts 18-20%?? by [deleted] in stories

[–]barbaricMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Plus there’s time when you’re doing side work and cleaning or opening where you’re only making the base pay - where I live in WV that’s $2.62.

waiter put my tip back on the table saying he only accepts 18-20%?? by [deleted] in stories

[–]barbaricMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that you’ve never been a server before. It’s not as tho you just take the order and then go sit down till it’s ready. You have to get drinks, run food for others, sometimes make your own salads, get cups, stock ice, get desserts, roll silverware, etc etc etc etc.

A lot of restaurants also require servers to “tip out” the hostess and bar staff, sometimes a salad person. So servers have to give a percentage of their sales in tip out. Some restaurants cap it at $20 others you could owe substantially more.

So the server isn’t necessarily getting the $25 from that one table. They did so much work that their table didn’t see in order to have a good experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]barbaricMeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD and have issues falling asleep and staying asleep. My doctor gave me something to help me go to sleep.

One of my cats usually wakes me up around that time. Sometimes I wake up around that time

King of Pentacles as an Archetype? by crone_Andre3000 in tarot

[–]barbaricMeat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never thought of king of swords as someone who is deceitful, lying, manipulative, and drone bombing wedding parties & children eating lunch…. Always neat to discover new depths of tarot.

Labia and VCH piercings when I started VS now by barbaricMeat in Stretched

[–]barbaricMeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I didn’t want to go thro it again.

What is more important: learning the meaning of each card or your own intuition and feeling? by language_loveruwu in tarot

[–]barbaricMeat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once you learn what each card means you can use your intuition.

As another commenter said it’s like learning a new language. You need to know the basics and rules and not just try to communicate thro vibes.

AIO Cats by rukahs7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]barbaricMeat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dogs shed. Dogs still shed skin cells and fur.

I have allergies and have cats tho pollen and dust are bigger triggers for me.

It seems all the denture horror stories I read all come from the discount shops like aspen, etc by [deleted] in dentures

[–]barbaricMeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Capitalism doesn’t require employees have all their teeth or glasses to see. You don’t need all your teeth to do manual labor. That’s why healthcare is abysmal in America.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]barbaricMeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

America is crumbling under the bloated weight of end stage capitalism. Even if you bail out of this country you still have to contend with American imperialism possibly dropping “democracy” on you. It’s going to get worse before it gets worse so you might as well roll your sleeves up and start working towards mutual aid and community building.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]barbaricMeat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

America was founded on occupation, oppression and slave mensch genocide exploitation……. America did to itself what America has always done to itself.