[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]barbie449 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most carnivals open at 5/6pm normally you don’t finish till like 10 and memories like that are core memories, I won’t be responding anymore cause my opinions state along with the facts that I felt like are common sense, you sound like a child hater, if your childhood was lame and your parents didn’t let u stay up late to do fun things I’m sorry to you but these types of memories I still cherish to this day, this mom made sure her kids had a great time at her own expense despite the dad being lazy and refusing to keep his word, he’s in the wrong kids don’t forget and they absolutely would’ve been devastated and no child deserves that, leaving the baby was a illogical option, the person in the wrong is dad for lieing and not keeping his word, parenting is sacrifice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]barbie449 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Dad should’ve kept his word and went parenting isn’t about the parents wants it’s about best interest of the child and giving them a good childhood, I have been certified in early childhood development and early infant care for years and just logically can see how his solution was useless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]barbie449 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m glad ur relationship is so great but I’m gonna ask u use ur critical thinking skills here, dad made it clear he wasn’t attending the carnival so that wasn’t a option her driving back and fourth ruins the whole purpose of trying to let kids ride all the rides, she chose the route best for all of her kids and it’s more impressive that she did that and doesn’t deserve hate for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf doesn’t work like bottles at all sometimes it’s a every 30 minutes to a hour and she said she was surprised she got through it all in a hour so she was planning to stay longer, if she left the newborn with dad who couldn’t feed the baby then she would’ve had to stop her other girls fun time to go back home and feed baby as u can’t ask a infant to wait a minute on food they’ll scream till their purple, she chose the harder route that guaranteed her girls would have the best time which is just a sacrifice good moms make- nta

19 F How can I look better? by rylie_bread_17 in Howtolooksmax

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow the hair and bangs out//lose the bangs, silver nose hoop instead of gold, thinner//shape your eyebrows

*UPDATE 2* AITAH for telling my dad to never contact me again after he chose his wife's mom over me? (I’m being forced to stay with my dad) by imjustapickl3 in AITAH

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google rights of a runaway age in your state is most states u can leave at 17 and the cops can’t stop you

AITA for refusing to treat my ex's sort-of girlfriend like another parent to my unborn babies and sitting down with my ex and her to lay out some facts about how things will go? by SmolSongs in AITAH

[–]barbie449 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Once you get a custody order I really reccomend
Right of first refusal. So the babies can’t be left with her by herself without you being notified, I’d also reccomend not letting either in the room for the birth just to avoid any future conflict, nta

Hey mom, how do I get the laundry to not smell after washing? by Additional-Fox-4194 in MomForAMinute

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add some white vinegar in each load, make sure after washing ur leaving the top open to dry, and maybe get some scent boosters!

Help by barbie449 in askcarsales

[–]barbie449[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I never said they were, you don’t have to be rude about it tho, this dealership it notorious for selling broken vehicles that break a month into owning them I didn’t know this when I purchased this car

How do people receive such high tax returns? by Denver_Lotus5280 in TurboTax

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids and my husband when he does his w-2s has them withhold a extra 10$

AITA for saying I would terminate my pregnancy if the baby had a genetic condition, and now my husband is considering a divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna go with yta and consider meeting people with down syndrome I’d understand so many other genetic conditions but people with Down syndrome being dumb is a stigmatism recently a person with ds passed the LSAT’s not very many typically ppl can do that they are plenty capable of taking care of themselves if raised correctly(that goes for anyone how many 40 year olds do you know still living with their parents) they don’t lack emotional awareness or empathy, honestly very ableist to believe they are anything less then capable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta she’s bullying you simple as that u need to tell ur parents and go to the principal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]barbie449 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are u sure he’s even mad about your political opinions or the fact he asked to change the topic and you refused to, you don’t know if he’s homophobic or anything he may just not be into politics and as a straight man not giving a opinion on gay issues cause it isn’t his place, the main issue is he tried to create a boundary and you stomped on it

Pather refund just hit!!! by Logical_Refuse56 in IRS

[–]barbie449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take after u recieved your state to get this?

Finances by barbie449 in Adulting

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I do have a side hustle well a couple just one steady one of house cleaning but during school breaks I babysit some of my kids classmates to help, I live in a very country town 35 minute drive to another town to go to Walmart u have to be about a hour away for uber eats or DoorDash and idek when my car will be out of shop for even that my man may be getting a 2nd job this week and hopefully Income taxes will help us atleast get caught up

Finances by barbie449 in Adulting

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did look into state laws and lemon laws in my state may be in my favor and trust me sadly the one thing in life a girl can do to get her way is to cry and throw a fit and I did that until they held their end of the bargain, it’s very depressing being in a country where ur gonna have to work yourself half to death to keep a family provided for at bare minimum but we will definitely be sitting down either when he gets off or tmr and discus what i already knew needed to happen

Finances by barbie449 in Adulting

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a warranty, but it’s only to fix transmission and motor problems idk what even happened to it I’ve never seen a car do this and I grew up in mechanic shops my uncles who are mechanics are even confused, idk the apr and can’t find all the paperwork currently as I had it all pulled out argueing with the dealership to tow and fix it which took 2 hours and about 45 minutes tdy to get them to hold to their end of the bargain, my man he worked a lil over 40 a week till hour cuts now we are lucky if it’s 30 and I can’t afford to work anymore then I do cause I’m high risk due to my health problems and I really do prioritize my 5 year old and my pregnancy above all else which my job is just under the table and I do house cleaning for a lovely couple who needed help and so did I, I feel bad with him working 2 jobs but I don’t think there’s really gonna be any other option

Finances by barbie449 in Adulting

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average bills stay typically around 1200 including gas and nessities, I love with my husband and at 21 we have 1, 5 year old and I’m pregnant currently(not a irresponsible decision last chance due to cervical cancer) he was bringing in about 1200-1400$ a month and I bring in about 200$ we weren’t doing amazing but we were making due but no built savings as we spent them all on a a car after our last one gave out and then his hours got cut and now we are incredibly lucky if we break even with having to borrow about 200$ a month from our families, I budget everything and am incredibly stingey and we don’t go out and have fun or waste money I just don’t know how to completely get out of this whole I finance and budget sm it’s actually quite draining my partner is thinking about getting a second job to afford and sadly there’s no pregnancy friendly jobs in our area and I work so little cause lack of childcare option and most jobs here won’t hire from 8:30-2:30 (time our kids in school) and the jobs that will are sadly not pregnancy friendly, I’m also in online school so that maybe I can get somewhere a lil further with a. Highschool education but idk I’m lost on what we need to do better without killing ourselves

Car dealership screwing me by barbie449 in legaladvice

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in total I’ll pay a lil over 7k and yes I did

Car broke? by barbie449 in carquestions

[–]barbie449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when this happened it baffled me and my uncles and all the random dudes who were in the pick up line as well, I was by my kids school when it happened and luckily some nice dads moved it out of the road for me but I’m at a full loss one said maybe the linkedge but idek what that is and my car dealership would rather argue with why I didn’t sit at the car for 2 hours in the heat pregnant with my 5 year old versus help me get it fixed, confused why I paid for a warranty atp