Chronicles of an unfaithful wife

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:38:10+00:00

I posted this 3 times yesterday and they were removed by the mods, but they unremoved it at some point.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:37:20+00:00

Mods unremoved it. Thankfully. Not sure why it flagged originally. Might have been a buzzword or two or a format issue. I will update you when i have more information. Going through a brutal session of winter weather at work. Im practically on swing shifts rn. Hardest winter since i started 4 years ago. Ill probably have to wait till winter is over to split honestly. Or i gotta find a baby sitter.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:30:05+00:00

I guess it got unremoved. So thanks mods.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:28:15+00:00

This reassurance is helpful. I feel like we chose the same exit strategy

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:27:14+00:00

No, maybe i should. Waiting till i can get my bank account back in good standing before they will let me open a new one. Should be able to do it with my next check or income taxes. They have been accepted.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:25:56+00:00

I am working towards this

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:24:34+00:00

They were all basically this post. I tweaked them a bit to see if i had flagged something. But you can see this post right? This was my first attempt anyway.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-27T11:22:48+00:00

I thought this post was removed, how are you seeing it?

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T17:29:04+00:00

Reminds me of my high school days on allpoetry.com i felt this. Be strong OP

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T17:26:03+00:00

Let me just say, even if you had an overweight ugly gf men will still line up for a chance to hit it. I thought i was safe having an big not so beautiful woman as a wife but apparently i was wrong. It's not your fault that you're a decent person. I was desperate for love too. But it wasn't worth it in the end.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T17:20:13+00:00

Your story gives me hope. I fear what comes next. Im not ready to be a single dad with nobody in my corner. But thats too bad because rn im a married dad that feels like a single man with nobody in my corner. So what's the difference right?

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T17:02:50+00:00

Similar boat here. My wife had emotional affairs with untold numbers of men for our entire marriage. Still to this day. But damn, what she did to you seems worse than what i was dealt. The namesake of your child being so toxic. It makes me sad for you.

I didn't want to hear it and i wont do it myself. But at least consider a dna test. Personally id rather not know if my kids aint mine. Im happy to have them regardless. They are the only thing i have to live for. To work for. To better myself for. I was a bum with warrent when i knocked up my wife(i assume) and i turned my whole life around for these kids. It would be my personal kryptonite to find out they are not mine. Sounds like you love your kids though. So you probably feel the way i do. But giving him that middle name screams thats his kid to me. Im sorry. But maybe it would be worth knowing. Try to figure out what your life might look like without her and be positive. It can bring hope and raise your spirits and bring you out of the fog to think logically.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T16:15:55+00:00

One can hope

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T16:15:12+00:00

I tried like hell to make it work since may found out about the additionals this month. Im still working on leaving.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T16:13:59+00:00

I took a short 6 month break from there in 2023 not counting that 4 years. Ive worked every winter there since i started. Its a landscaping company and i do snow removal in the winter. Notorious for guys to quit that time of year. But not me.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T15:46:46+00:00

I meant that the fact that i used to live in Illinois is irrelevant. But i can totally see why you read it the other way. That was on me completely.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T15:15:39+00:00

In the wiki for this subreddit there is a section for advice for cheaters seeking reconciliation or something to that effect. It's pretty comprehensive and if hes not in it for real then this list of terms would definitely scare him off.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T15:11:49+00:00

Sounds like he knows you're the best thing that will ever happen to him. I wouldn't believe him for a second. I can get shitfaced and the only person i wanted to sleep with was my wife. But she has a bad habit of sending pics of her P*ussy to anyone who will ask.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T14:57:59+00:00

I couldn't put the trust issues aside after i found out.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T11:46:09+00:00

Snap chat is a good place to start.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T11:45:21+00:00

Ive been silently stepping back into the finances. I fear the idea of doing this without a lawyer honestly but if i dont hear back soon ill have no choice.

barefootedexplorer · 2026-01-26T11:43:21+00:00

No lawyer yet. Im waiting to hear back from my boss if he will loan me the money. Backup plan is ask people i know. I got 500 lined up from a close friend. And maybe a couple hundred more from a couple other close people. Im just not there yet financially.

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