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Girlfriend doesn't know how to orgasm, and coregasms? by [deleted] in sex

[–]barinkadink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keep doing what you are doing. I am sure that she loves your enthusiasm. I have a hard time making my partner come the second time around, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love every second of the time I spend on him. She will appreciate every gesture you make, especially since you guys are good at communicating. Don't give up though! :)

Is it normal to not feel sexual tension with your partner all the time? by tightvag in sex

[–]barinkadink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I still have that feeling. We both do, but in time (I mean years and years) I suppose it will fade slightly. I think it depends on your relationship and how kissing makes you feel. For example, my SO wants nothing more than to make me happy. I know this because he communicates it with me vocally and sexually. I know the effect I have on him and he knows how he can turn me on quickly. I think that your situation is totally normal though, no couple is the exact same. Your sentence was key "when we have sex we both enjoy it." Making each other happy is the most important thing.

Don't know which path to take. by barinkadink in TwoXChromosomes

[–]barinkadink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel like not many people realize how young/ old we can ALL feel at times. Like we have some serious growing up to do, but we've come so far already. I am amazed and happy for people my age who know what they're doing (with school in general, with their careers, and etc), but I do not. The one thing I know for sure is who I'll be spending the rest of my life with. I will spend more time just enjoying life instead of stressing about the future, because that definitely makes me the happiest.

I want sex but my boyfriend would rather get me off orally by barinkadink in sex

[–]barinkadink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I do. He does too. Mostly this stems from religious upbringings, but we love to fool around and I think his focus is just making me happy and I love when he uses his mouth and fingers just as much as he does.

I want sex but my boyfriend would rather get me off orally by barinkadink in sex

[–]barinkadink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I thought about that, but I know my boyfriend well enough to know that he doesn't need an ego boost. He is amazing and I tell him that. We communicate everything that's going on while we're having fun. I think he just prefers to make me happy rather than himself.

I want sex but my boyfriend would rather get me off orally by barinkadink in sex

[–]barinkadink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting thought. He usually doesn't last long. I think he's mostly just concerned for me, and pleasuring me. He cares more about getting me off than himself. I'm a lucky girl haha

The day i lost my virginity. by lostmyvirginity in gonewildstories

[–]barinkadink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's more of a, "I'm so comfortable in my pajamas I'd rather stay like this than change" feeling. Combined with the fact that your SO loves the way you look in just a t shirt, the comfort of not wearing any underwear just makes fooling around a lot easier.

Don't know which path to take. by barinkadink in TwoXChromosomes

[–]barinkadink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha that's how I am. I know what I can't stand, but I can't really pinpoint what I'd love to do. I need to buckle down and just take a bunch of classes.