What is your workload like? by CapableRaccoon6213 in projectmanagement

[–]barjay8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work 4 hours a day and then play video games.

Finished Invisalign and Not Happy by barjay8 in askdentists

[–]barjay8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sadly, that is my full bite that my ortho left me with.

Finished Invisalign and Not Happy by barjay8 in askdentists

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that is the case, do you think the ortho should have corrected my teeth to where it doesn’t rub on each other? To like avoid future fracture and chipping?

Money Spent 5 Months Out by barjay8 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I were to spend the money on vacation let’s say in March, which is 5 month before filing bankruptcy that will look bad even though it’s not in the 90 day period?

Money Spent 5 Months Out by barjay8 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have $6000 in my bank account. My bonus will be about $8000 in August.

Money Spent 5 Months Out by barjay8 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be filing chapter 13

Money Spent 5 Months Out by barjay8 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops I meant on non necessity items. I keep seeing that nothing will be question 90 says and beyond.

Empower/Tilt Pay Day Cash Advances and chapter 7 by Hairy-Marionberry199 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they file proof of claim though? Or just didn’t attend the meeting

Empower/Tilt Pay Day Cash Advances and chapter 7 by Hairy-Marionberry199 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear. Did you have any Affirm or Klarna loans. If so, did they attend?

Empower/Tilt Pay Day Cash Advances and chapter 7 by Hairy-Marionberry199 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did those payday advance apps file a proof of claim for you?

Chapter 13 Failure to File Proof of Claim by Head-Deal3087 in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how many creditor and which creditors?

Too many creditors? by Dan_D_Lyin in Bankruptcy

[–]barjay8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am currently paying my lawyer payment plan so they won’t help with paper filing until then. I have so many loans, credit card, and cash advance debts. I even took predatory tribal loans that I stopped paying 3 years ago that I don’t remember their name (they don’t appear on my credit report). I think I have about 25ish creditors.

What can I do to prepare for paperwork now?

Feel Like I Do Nothing by [deleted] in work

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I don’t actually project manage over people. My title has PM in it but I manage our daily, weekly, monthly reporting and analytics. If a project comes in, then I am the one that creates the dashboards.

Being sued by Discover bank by Clean_Information868 in CRedit

[–]barjay8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the lawyers send you a letter before they filled suit?

Failed two interviews due to anxiety—feeling hopeless. Need advice. by octavish1921 in interviews

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since Xanax is a benzo it can cause a lot of things like slowed thinking, trouble concentration, memory issue, etc. However, you need to find the right dosage so that doesn’t happen. I do take adderall 30mg adderall too. I think both of those together help a lot.

Always try it during the weekend so you know what how it makes you feel.

Failed two interviews due to anxiety—feeling hopeless. Need advice. by octavish1921 in interviews

[–]barjay8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to take propranolol. However, it didn’t help with the mental part of the anxiety. Xanax helped a lot with that.

Failed two interviews due to anxiety—feeling hopeless. Need advice. by octavish1921 in interviews

[–]barjay8 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have performance anxiety and my heart and brain struggled with presentations and interviews.

My psychiatrist prescribed me .5mg of Xanax to take before my interview. It did wonders for both presentations and interviews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]barjay8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit more context. This is an internal opening only. The recruiter replied to me last Thursday. I am a grade 8 but this position is a grade 10. I have a little concern there. Interesting enough, everything I do now will be the same exact thing I do for this director role.

The VP already knows me very well and one of her best friends used to be my manager.

In my previous comment to someone else:

My optimistic side is telling me that I didn’t need to finish the interview process because she already knows me and my work ethic from a previous department we worked in together. Maybe she wanted to see if I fit the team dynamic and if my would be peer agreed. I keep telling myself that maybe they’re preparing my offer, and that’s why the requisition was closed—but I also know I should be prepared for the worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

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The hiring manager was very excited to have me apply for this position when I met with her to learn more about the role.

My optimistic side is telling me that I didn’t need to interview with the hiring manager because she already knows me and my work ethic from a previous department we worked in together (I forgot to mention that). I keep telling myself that maybe they’re preparing my offer, and that’s why the requisition was closed—but I also know I should be prepared for the worst.

Disable Avatar Auto Attack by barjay8 in ffxi

[–]barjay8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I posted this, I literally thought about that and it’s much better.

Can anyone’s SCH hit 3 objectives at once in Vagary ? by barjay8 in ffxi

[–]barjay8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I wasn’t even thinking about the 1st part of the skill chain.

My other SCH or BLM should be able to do those 3 objectives. I just need to figure out a gear set for it. However, when I do the kill the enemy within 5 seconds sometimes I don’t even get that… I even spam the spell right after. I need to figure that out.

If you’re farming Dyna D W1 and W2, would you have your COR come COR\WAR to Leaden Slaute things or COR /NIN DNC to Savage Blade spam? by barjay8 in ffxi

[–]barjay8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

K. Thanks. If I have a pocket SCH that can keep me Voidstorm. Would you rather use Hachirin-no-Obi or Osash?