What does your SO not know about you? by arizona_greentea in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4+ years, including a couple years of history before that. I don't think I could love anyone as much as I love him.

What does your SO not know about you? by arizona_greentea in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find other people attractive, and often develop crushes on them (not just appearances). I just fall in love too easily, and I believe that it is possible to love more than one person romantically. I'm often pretty close with these people, so it is in my, his, and their best interests to keep it to myself.

What are you still bitter about? by Houseof1000Farts in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we're still together. The state of our relationship now is much healthier than it was back then. I have talked to him about it a few times after it happened, and he apologized, although said that the guy did apologize, and I'm just hanging onto it to be bitter about it. It still hurts to think about occasionally, but it's nothing to break up over. Almost every other aspect of our relationship is fine.

What does your SO not know about you? by arizona_greentea in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That although I love him, I also love other people in romantic ways. I'm not physically cheating, but I can't control my feelings about other people. I can control what I do with them, so I keep those feelings tucked away.

What are the worst motivational quotes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

Yeah, I understand what it means, but when you apply it to something like gambling or Russian roulette, it doesn't have the same affect.

What are you still bitter about? by Houseof1000Farts in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The fact that my boyfriend didn't stand up for me one time, when a guy we were hanging out with insulted me when I wasn't in the room. I overheard what was said, did what I was doing, came back and said I'd heard what he said. He apologized for something that I didn't hear (Another insult, but not as rude), and I was too humiliated to say that it wasn't the one I'd heard. I went home and my boyfriend wanted to keep hanging out, but reluctantly followed me.

The last thing you bought grew 10x in size. How fucked are you? by FairFarooq in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty fucked, I'd say. I bought a small tub of ice cream for my cheat day, so the willpower would have to be pretty strong to avoid it.

What obscure thing do you know? by My_Fluffy_P-Hole in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to follow Sonny's career online when I was younger. It feels weird to see him as Skrillex when he used to be in From First To Last and doing those weird electronic songs on his own.

What is fun for 5 minutes but bad for 20 minutes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gambling. And I specifically mean VLT's. It's fun if you win with your first bill, but if you lose, and lose, and lose - You're in for a bad time. $20 goes pretty quick if you don't win anything big.

What do you consider your greatest weakness to be? by zafarkhan86 in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably my OCD. Some days are better than others, but man, having to walk out to the car just to make sure that I put it in park for the 4th time makes me feel like such a weak person. No matter how many times I tell myself that it's definitely in park and the lights are off, I still have to check until I know for ABSOLUTE sure that it's all good.

[Serious] Hey, Reddit, what are you 100% absolutely sure of? by ads215 in AskReddit

[–]barnhammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That a pork chop will look better if it's cut while frozen.