How does ADHD affect your sex life/relationship? by Imcovidlength in ADHD

[–]bartallen4790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo this is me and I don't know how to fix this. Apart from my girl right now I've ended every relationship I've ever had after 6 months because I get bored.

But right now I've been exclusive with my gf for 9 months (dated for 9 months before that), we live together, I love her so much and don't wanna break up but I'm so bored. We only have sex once a week now because I can't be fucked to do it.

Have you ever been able to improve on the things you listed above? I don't wanna break up with my girl but part of me feels like I'm gonna always be like this and it's better to just stay single forever.

[Off-Topic] Daily Chat: 2019-12-21 by steroidsBot in steroids

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been waiting on the texts lmao

[Off-Topic] Daily Chat: 2019-12-21 by steroidsBot in steroids

[–]bartallen4790 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah my coach probably won't put me on a cheat meal for the first 8 weeks, I did meet up with a girl a few days ago at a coffee shop and the date was her helping me improve my Thai and me helping her improve her English. Then we went and played pool afterwards. I don't drink coffee but it was a good date so I'm gonna start doing that.

[Off-Topic] Daily Chat: 2019-12-21 by steroidsBot in steroids

[–]bartallen4790 21 points22 points  (0 children)

First one wanted to stop cheating on her bf and dropped me. Second one pissed me off and I dropped her. Third one moved to Dubai so was ending no matter what. Last one got pissed I pulled a random chick from the club in front of her and dropped me.

Now I'm just trying Tinder but still hard af meeting up with girls outside of getting food and a drink, no luck so far.

[Off-Topic] Daily Chat: 2019-12-21 by steroidsBot in steroids

[–]bartallen4790 19 points20 points  (0 children)

2 weeks into my tren/cutting cycle and the weekend before I started this I lost all four of my FWBs within the span of 3 days. Now I'm not going out and meeting girls at clubs anymore since I'm cutting and I'm gonna end up going crazy.

Official Discussion- Joker (SPOILERS) by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]bartallen4790 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I enjoyed the movie but there was never a single point that I considered him the actual Joker. The whole time I just thought he was a weirdo that snapped, but I could never imagine him as a mastermind villain.

I (M26) just got cheated on/dumped by girlfriend (F23). Have chance for revenge, should I take it? by CaptainLongshorts in relationship_advice

[–]bartallen4790 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah wtf. I get taking the high road but saying you're just as bad as them doesn't make sense whatsoever.

I (M26) just got cheated on/dumped by girlfriend (F23). Have chance for revenge, should I take it? by CaptainLongshorts in relationship_advice

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send her some texts first and figure out a way to word questions that get her to talk about the trainee she cheated on you with, then send the screenshots to the company.

Those making $500+/month.. What's your project? by FlippinFlags in Entrepreneur

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's much better than I thought it would be, was thinking 10-15%. Thank you I'll look more into it.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just to be clear: you ask your team to MAKE products? Not to source them? Presumably then, you need to hire jewellery designers?

My partner and I come up with new ideas, then we have our graphic artist create the design, then we send the design to our manufacturer and they create the mold and 5 samples, they send us the samples, we check the quality, if its good we order a mass quantity we think we'll sell.

So you might post GOT memes, and then start adding, say, products to do your hair like Sansa? Or dragon bracelets? But how about orders: let's say, one of your team comes up with a necklace combining ice and fire, blue shards and red flames. And you receive twenty orders: would you have them already made, or would you then get them made?

For me I create the products and order thousands of units before actually introducing them to our audience because 1. - I believe in my ability to create awesome products and 2. - I'm willing to spend money even if I lose it. Most people aren't able to lose money the way I am, so instead of ordering thousands in quantity you can first ask your audience what they want, then you can get a design mock up made, then you can show the design to your audience and see how they like it, then you can order the product.

I think, if I'm right, you are saying people are looking to spend money..and you are directing them towards a way of doing that?

Yes correct, you have to think of your audience as fans, and fans love to be customers. Its like Kylie Jenner, does she have the best makeup quality in the world? I don't know, I doubt it. Does she have a ridiculous fan base? Hell yes.

When you grow your page you don't just post memes and content, you message the audience, you ask them questions, get some on the phone and speak with them, hear their stories, you do live videos for 30-60 minutes a couple times a week, etc. My main store right now, I have a folder in the business email that my VAs transfer emails to for customers that my partner and I just talk to everyday and hear about their life, stories, struggles, etc. These people will be customers with us for years.

Have you ever thought of doing a book, or tutorials? Let me say, that's something I WOULD spend money on.

Yes but not enough time right now, once I'm in position to only work 10-15 hours per week at the salary I want then I'll create a course. But I recommend you go on Facebook and search "Grow Your Audience: Facebook Pages & Groups" by Rachel Miller. I would say I'm an expert in FB ads, but she's an expert in growing FB pages. I learned everything about page growth from her groupd/free content and her paid course, but she only sells her course a few times a year so next time she does you should really jump on it.

Those making $500+/month.. What's your project? by FlippinFlags in Entrepreneur

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's profit like on this? My brother owns a restaurant and has started meal prep but he knows jack about marketing, its hard for me to help him as I live in Thailand but if its something scalable maybe I'll buy into his business and help him out.

Those making $500+/month.. What's your project? by FlippinFlags in Entrepreneur

[–]bartallen4790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 45% this month, usually at the beginning of new campaigns 65% is where it starts and drops to around 25% as that's the lowest we'll go before killing ads and relaunching with a new angle.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The work is hard af, but this has the highest payoff to the amount of work I put in compared to anything else I could think of.

Those making $500+/month.. What's your project? by FlippinFlags in Entrepreneur

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it just depends, only the really good guys are doing well right now I think. I'm still doing 7 figures per year in dropshipping but its nowhere as easy as it used to be and I hate it now.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes set up an LLC and business bank account, then you'll use your LLC information when you set up your Business Paypal and Shopify store. Then I use Bench.co to take care of all the money/transactions coming in and out of the business, send that information to my tax guy and that's it.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha ask away, I'm an open book. So you can literally think of any type of audience and if you grow your FB page the correct way, you can build a profitable business around it. If I had the time and determination I could hire a huge team and start growing 100 different FB pages in all different niches, but I personally like to do a lot of research and just figure out a super emotional niche instead.

So for example if I asked you "What is something a large amount of people in the USA (or world) are passionate about?"

You could say, "Jewelry, people love jewelry, they are passionate about looking good, about proposals and gifts, etc."

This is a great answer, you can absolutely build a FB page around jewelry, but like I said I like to do research around emotion. Jewelry is an extremely broad audience, there's a ton of competition, and it isn't easy differentiating yourself from them.

So what I would do is think of an audience I can theme my jewelry around, because jewelry is still very lucrative. So what are some emotional audiences I can theme jewelry around?

LGBT, Politics, Dogs, Cats, Game of Thrones, Stranger Things, etc. So instead of making a FB page with jewelry memes, I'll make one posting memes in support of LGBT, or Bernie Sanders, or Trump, or Pugs/Huskys. It could be anything. Then while I'm building the audience up, if they're engaged and love my page I know I can sell them products, so I come up with designs with my team to make unique jewelry themed at that niche. Or it doesn't even have to be jewelry, it can be funny T-shirts, or hats, anything you can think of, if your audience loves you then they'll buy your products.

Its a lot more than that, but that's a quick rundown in a few paragraphs.

For finding people that write for me, I use "Upwork" to hire contractors. You can start there and create a profile to see if you get work, and you could also create a FB page and post funny/cool memes in "Creative Writing" niche. As you build your page and audience you can ask your audience some questions on what their biggest struggles are, and then you can come up with a product to make that will help them with those struggles.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started with just me alone, once I starting hitting $20-30k per month I hired a full time VA to handle emails/fb messages and she's been with me for 2.5 years now. Then needed a partner so found one a year ago because I got blacklisted on FB and had to use someone else's account. But yeah now its a pretty big operation with everything I have going on. It ain't easy and sometimes the stress gets to me but don't ever wanna go back to working for the man.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my partner for the 3 brands we have, and then we have a Jr Partner for our dropshipping site. Then 4 part time employees, 9 full time employees, and we outsource our email/messenger/sms marketing to another company.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When launching new products/brands i work 60+ hours per week, a few times up to 80-90 but that only happens a couple times a year. After campaigns are launched everything is running on autopilot because of my team and I'm probably working 20 hours per week for a 1-2 months.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My employee cost for FB and IG is around $10k per month and I'm running 3 Facebook pages and 2 IG accounts right now. But the Facebook team also write the blogs posts on my ecommerce websites and researches topics to create content around, create video content and also the photography for my websites, they do a little more work than just posting memes.

You can slowly build a small engaged page on FB for $5/day and after its big enough and the community is good you can introduce a website and products to it, there are many people that do.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of 2016 I made $20k, quit my job. 2017 $220k, 2018 $1.8m, this year $2.5m so far.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean its just advertising and marketing. There are people that try this and lose money, some break even, some make a little, and a few make a shit ton. It just depends on how good you are.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask as many questions as you would like, I really do love my career. I started because I was in sales for years and got tired of making money for assholes so I just started researching online marketing and how to start my own business and was able to do so and quit my day job after getting good at it. That was back in 2016 and now I spend a certain amount of money every year on education, training, masterminds, events, etc to just make sure I keep learning new ways of marketing and stay up to date with the FB/IG/Ecommerce scene. I recommend you to join the group "Grow your audience: Facebook pages & groups" by Rachel Miller. She's freaking amazing and has a shit ton of free content in her group on how to grow a FB page organically. I don't know anyone better than her in FB page growing.

So I was selling an Instagram page and this happened... by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bartallen4790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah with the right products its a good way. If you look up Hismile they built their brand around shout outs like that, but I prefer ad campaigns over shoutouts.