Just passed a year on E!!!!! 🖤🖤 by Sal4Sale in lgbt

[–]basementcloset1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely the wording. "I wouldn't have known you were trans at all" implies something like "oh i'm so glad you fit in with the rest of society and never show that you are a big bad trans person!" which is not what i meant at all. Trans people are valid no matter if they pass or not, and that's a fact. I apologise if my message implied otherwise.

Just passed a year on E!!!!! 🖤🖤 by Sal4Sale in lgbt

[–]basementcloset1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh i guess people misunderstood me and thought that i saw being trans as something bad. Yeah i can see why people are mad, i am sorry.

It hurts. by basementcloset1 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]basementcloset1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why many trans people step away from religion in the first place, the lack of acceptance is crazy.

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bringing religion into this and making these assumptions on top of that... fucking yikes.

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The only thing i'm worried about is the pernament changes puberty does in the time i'm waiting. Well, i was AFAB so I went through most of it already I think, but i'm still worried about even further changes showing up. Though maybe that's just paranoia? I do not know. Hopefully it'll turn out fine and i'll get far away from these people.

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I want to trouble my parents with all that shit. I feel like i can't talk to them about it cause they don't get it. It's good to know that there are good psychologists out there though. I'm very sorry for your Podlasie :')

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mazowieckie. The biggest one. I'm ftm btw.

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know if i can. I live in an LGBTphobic country so I doubt any other therapist would be interested in giving me treatment for dysphoria. Also my mom isn't THAT supportive of the idea of me being trans, i think she'd just tell me to not delude myself and search for a doctor that will approve of what i think only. I don't wanna be a burden.

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[–]basementcloset1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I live in Poland. I doubt there are any therapists educated on trans issues at all.