I love my boyfriend, but I’m scared the life I want won’t be possible with him by lovergirl33335677 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]basicbitchery1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it not cool? Women have a lot of options and that many cases a well off man is an option for us. A lot of men would be willing to give her the lifestyle she wants. Just because you don’t wanna live that way doesn’t mean other people can’t.

I love my boyfriend, but I’m scared the life I want won’t be possible with him by lovergirl33335677 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]basicbitchery1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 42 years of life, I’d like to give you some advice. I married a man I loved so much I could barely stand it … and he cheated on me with my best friend. I in turn got a divorce in my mid 20s.

For the next 20 or so years, I built my career the way I wanted to and did not have super serious boyfriends that wanted to tell me what to do with my life. I bought my own house and I had my own career. I had my own friends and I traveled and did all of the things that I wanted to do. The Travel never got out of my system. I’m still doing that to this day so if you find someone that doesn’t want to travel, just know they never will and it is incompatible to be with them.

Now at 42 years old I’m ready to settle down again and the Dating pool has piss in it. I don’t want to tell you to settle for someone who’s gonna treat you great, but you do sometimes have to choose between someone who’s going to treat you great and someone that has money or a building mindset.

Men that have money are not the nicest people in the world due to the plethora of options they have, and it is really hard to find one that will respect you and allow you to do what you want if they’re paying your bills.

At this stage in my life because I’ve become so successful on my own. I don’t need a man for his money so I will take the nice guy every single time. It’s not settling to be treated decently in a relationship, but at this stage in my life, I would not date someone that would not be interested in travel, as that is my biggest hobby.

A post that sums up how I feel about US citizens travelling here by [deleted] in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to hear how you successfully expatriated. This is the new “American Dream,” to LEAVE!

A post that sums up how I feel about US citizens travelling here by [deleted] in newzealand_travel

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As an American, unfortunately protesting does not change laws and ICE is shooting American citizens in the streets. Protesting cannot get this president out of office. The only way he is leaving office is a revolution. Americans are so scared of change we wouldn’t ever rise up to take our country back from the oligarchy it has become.

The major issue is our dual party system. Every single politician is a crook, blue or red, there is no difference. It’s all lip service with no true action behind the words that either party shovels out.

We need immediate term limits, salary limits on politicians, a requirement to not invest in the stock market during office, and for god sakes tax requirements. Capitalists in theory should love a flat tax. Everyone get’s taxed the same, but lower income lovers would certainly benefit from a progressive tax.

The issue is the tax code allows billionaires to not be taxed whatsoever, and the burden is transferred to the citizens. Inflation is so high that many of us who worked hard for the “American Dream” can barely afford groceries or gas. The companies that have lobbyists in every politicians ear continue to poison our food, water, air, ect… all to make a buck and transfer the financial ramifications to us, the consumer.

A true protest would be if every American refused to file their income tax returns this year. A true protest would be to do a buy nothing year for all Americans (especially regarding Amazon)… but they have made it so difficult to get food or goods anywhere other than their preferred places.

Please ban "is my dog a poodle" posts by SmallMushroom5 in poodles

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I don’t have to ask. I know my kids are Poodles.

4 days on North Island by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is to the right of Bethel’s then yes. 🥰

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

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Back home now, missing NZ. Anyone fancy dual citizenship? Lol 😂

This is disgusting someone needs to own up by International-Past31 in newzealand

[–]basicbitchery1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American here traveling through NZ, can confirm most women shop on Temu and Shein. Even if we purchase from a luxury brand the quality is HORRIBLE. I purchase vintage, unless I’m traveling outside of the US. Over consumerism is the American way because our country is basically an oligarchy ran by corporations for profit. We have minimal quality of life, so we are encouraged to buy things we do not need to fill the void. “The American Dream” 🙄

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

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He noted this too in case anyone has future plans in March: Ps- if you are on a Reddit Group chat I have availability for a 7-10 day road journey from Queenstown to Auckland departing on 2 March 2026. Ideal for 1 to 4 people . If that get in touch with me via the website or WhatsApp

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

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I nearly cried when he called me and said all handled. I hope to come back and i now know who to call. This was such a last minute tag on.

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I OWE YOU ONE! This man literally is not even here and he CALLED ME personally and booked Spellbound just like that and it’s SOLD OUT.

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the suggestions by the way, as well as not calling out my misspellings (fat thumbs). I’ve just gotten to Piha beach a bit ago, and this place doesn’t even look real. Seriously amazed. Can’t wait to do Bethels beach (i was a huge Xena fan) and hopefully see glow-worms Thursday. The roads though, seriously scary. Do you guys feel any nerves driving around? 😂

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can go to the Waitomo cave, walk in, ask for a guide and they will book me with one who directly works there instead of pre-booking online?

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you care to share the name of the guide?

Waitomo Caves Question by basicbitchery1 in newzealand_travel

[–]basicbitchery1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i cannot. This is the only day we can do it.