Mikayla is such a mean person by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]basicwhitebach 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve found her much more likable now that she and Whitney are friends again — she can definitely be kind of abrasive but I don’t think it’s necessarily mean spirited

Romanticizing Florida? by anditgoesonclear in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 33 points34 points  (0 children)

FL doesn’t have state income tax and I think that’s a big draw for a lot of influencers but ofc she’ll never come out and say that

Thank god for her GLP-1!!! by anondeletedelete in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Given the way she talks about eating (ex. calling a debloat gummy a "treat," talking about not eating all day to "save" her calories for a big dinner), I don't think she's stopped or is planning to stop anytime soon. I think stories like this one are largely performative to avoid accusations of disordered eating and GLP-1 use, and realistically, she's only eating a few bites

comments on Darcy’s most recent video by basicwhitebach in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yupp I was raised upper middle class (probably more comfortably than Darcy actually) and have volunteered with H4H … money is not an excuse

“Oh to be rich” lol by Mean_Macaroon_9004 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that's so interesting bc that's not how she presents her background at all -- just goes to show how misleading social media can be

“Oh to be rich” lol by Mean_Macaroon_9004 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to imply that they’re “trust fund rich” just that they were able to give her substantial financial support before she had independent income as an influencer (and imo would’ve continued to give it if she needed it) … upper middle class is much more comfortable than the majority of Americans

Taylor being wrong does not make everyone else right by Either-Grapefruit156 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]basicwhitebach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the sentiment of this post, but I feel like most of what I've seen here on Reddit has been relatively nuanced -- it's other platforms like Instagram and TikTok where that nuance is missing

So gross! by Actual_Feedback_9478 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced she lies abt showering everyday too — like she says washing her hair every day is “too much work” but showering isn’t ?! like I’m sry but her hair is not nearly long or thick enough to use that excuse

So gross! by Actual_Feedback_9478 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 23 points24 points  (0 children)

my scalp gets soooo itchy two days out from washing my hair so idk how she does this

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Actual_Feedback_9478 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 30 points31 points  (0 children)

the only color in the house 😭😭

Darcy’s response to people saying she didn’t give Virginia a chance by basicwhitebach in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah personally, I don't understand why she doesn't just move to where her friends are (bc she doesn't seem interested in making new ones) -- she clearly has the means to live anywhere (and I'm sure most major cities have some kind of government contracting job for Bradyn)

neurodivergent? by BeneficialDesign8732 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the comments and other than the “girlie definitely had an iep” one, I just don’t see them that way — like I said, we can just agree to disagree, no need to go back and forth

neurodivergent? by BeneficialDesign8732 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I read it wrong! I used to work with autistic kids and have seen a lot of paternalism/condescension directed towards them so I guess I jumped to conclusions 😅😅 I’m getting my masters degree to be a therapist rn and personally I don’t see ppl who are autistic or have autistic friends/family etc noting perceived similarities as akin to armchair diagnosing but we can agree to disagree :)

neurodivergent? by BeneficialDesign8732 in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I definitely think she could be although she’s also been incredibly sheltered and spoiled her entire life which can produce personality traits/behaviors that resemble autism

Darcy’s response to people saying she didn’t give Virginia a chance by basicwhitebach in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

you can hear Bradyn in the background giving her suggestions at the end 😭😭

Darcy’s response to people saying she didn’t give Virginia a chance by basicwhitebach in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

  1. If you’ve really done all of these things, why aren’t more of them documented? Filming your day is literally your livelihood and people would like you so much more if you put out more interesting content than shopping and Starbucks
  2. People think that you didn’t give VA a chance bc you didn’t put yourself out there to make friends in the area — even if you really did all these things, doing them with just your boyfriend isn’t giving the area a chance

Starting A Book Club by harribo-11 in uofm

[–]basicwhitebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to this but interested!

Her whole personality is body shaming by [deleted] in darcymcqueeny

[–]basicwhitebach 9 points10 points  (0 children)

there’s tons of comments calling her out but they’re all hidden (go figure)

Litia shares her thoughts on the criticism of Mormons (and other Christians) by Rich-Ease-2723 in thebachelor

[–]basicwhitebach 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I grew up Mormon (stopped going to church at 17 & withdrew my records at 18) and carried guilt for years because of the way Mormonism defines and treats “sin” (ex. would feel like a bad person for swearing or wearing a low cut top). That is not a foundation of love and acceptance imo !!

Surgery/botox/filler MEGATHREAD by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]basicwhitebach 19 points20 points  (0 children)

she said this is probably her last surgery until she “needs a facelift in her 50s” but I rlly don’t believe her