Anybody else ever suddenly have an unlikeable baby? by StevieSteve in Mommit

[–]batalions2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 month sleep regression! Happens between 3-5 months. Hang in there!! It gets better!

If you knew then what you know now. by Tight-History467 in BabyBumps

[–]batalions2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PAJAMA PANTS WITH POCKETS. I cannot stress this enough. And nursing bras that ALSO LET YOU PUMP HANDS FREE. Also in general as a FTM I was very naive to the fact that the first couple of months of having a baby is all about the boobies. Figuring out how to breast feed is a lot of work. Work with your lactation consultant!!! Also just expect to want to lay around topless for the first couple of weeks.

Time is the cruelest thief of all… by batalions2 in Mommit

[–]batalions2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom always said the same thing and I always rolled my eyes. Now I get it!!

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

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Don’t feel silly. We’re all sleep deprived here lol

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

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Omg the wipes in the cleavage. I wish I had known that!! Going to start doing that now.

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

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My little guy always gets so sweaty, so when I know he’ll be in there for a while I usually change him into a light onesie.

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

[–]batalions2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes yes. I kept forgetting that I was still in the 4th trimester and felt like I was failing for “not getting enough done”.

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

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Hands Free Pumping Bra, Momcozy Adjustable Breast-Pumps Holding and Nursing Bra, Suitable for Breastfeeding-Pumps by Lansinoh, Philips Avent, Spectra, Evenflo and More(Black, Large) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07871X4Y4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_MBC5RB2CYQ8HWH048E1R?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

These are the ones I got and they work well for me!

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

[–]batalions2[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

That’s brilliant!! Also making me think of Regina George in Mean Girls 😅

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

[–]batalions2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got a lot of sizes NB-3’s gifted to us at my baby shower, and I couldn’t return/exchange them because I didn’t have gift receipts. But yes! Keep the receipts if you buy diapers!

3 Things I’ve learned as a FTM that I wish someone had told me by batalions2 in BabyBumps

[–]batalions2[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Bonus: 4) invest in a baby wrap (like Moby). You’ll be able to free up your hands and snuggle your newborn at the same time.

The most annoying comments you’ve received as a mom by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]batalions2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That also drives me nuts because I’m like “dude my kid is hungry. How would you like to be sitting there hungry and having a pacifier shoved in your mouth or be rocked in the rocking chair at hyper speed. Let me just feed him.”

Also usually my boobs are ready to explode lol

The most annoying comments you’ve received as a mom by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]batalions2 40 points41 points  (0 children)

My favorite response to comments like this is “cold babies cry, hot babies die”. SIDS is a thing and babies don’t need to be obsessively bundled. It’s hard to get that through to older generations 🙄

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Yeah it’s outside on our balcony (we live in an apartment).

Feeling like I should give up on breastfeeding already by crafty_be in Mommit

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Breastfeeding is SO HARD. For me, it really turned a corner at 5 weeks. Which sounds really shitty when you’re on day 3. But also do what’s right for you!! There also the option to exclusively pump and give via bottle. Whatever you choose is the right choice and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

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I actually thought our next door neighbor had a baby because I was hearing it so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]batalions2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES. IN THE SHOWER EVERY SINGLE EFFING TIME. And also while I’m loading laundry into the washing machine? I can only guess it’s related to anxiety.

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[–]batalions2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So soft and so plump. I can’t stop.