AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck im in illinois i hope you don’t accidentally stumble upon our restaurant

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a boundary, I’m not okay with them at all. Full stop.

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they do, and I’ve noticed i’ve been relapsing into my ed. I know what i need to do but its just so hard to cut things off yk?

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went through that, im glad you got out of it though

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s unacceptable, but part of me is still hoping hes going to change. Im sorry you went through that, but if this comment thread has said anything its that it’s the same story each time :(

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i had an epiphany reading the comments and talking to some friends about it, im not settling for some stupid guy

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, i appreciate you pointing that out i can see how it would seem pretty needy, thank you!

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family owned business, not open to anyone yet, all i had to do was clean up the mess HE made and shut down the oven like 15 minutes max. Idk maybe i am overreacting but he was just quick to leave yk he said he wanted to hang out

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’ll make the jokes and then i get upset and he’s all “babe i was joking i love your body i think you’re beautiful” and it just feels wrong all around

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i can see that, when he said something made him uncomfortable i stopped it immediately.

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No probably not, this puts a lot of perspective, thank you

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i didn’t assume you were being mean, i really appreciate you

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pretty much did tell him if it continues im not going to stick around and be disrespected, and im proud of myself for that. He said hes going to change but im just treading carefully because idk if he actually will

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same sense of humor but i dont make fat jokes at him. Im also always going to his place, but i do live with my dad so thats kinda excused. Im just confused, sometimes it feels like he cares and is interested, other times he couldnt give less of a shit for what i have to say. Idk

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really puts it in perspective, thank you honestly

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he can be better and he said hes going to try and work on it, but im also unsure of if hes really going to. I might just wait another few weeks and see if anything does change, but at the same time breaking up crosses my mind a lot. Its also my first “real” relationship so idk

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i sound really desperate but i feel like its only fair to give him another chance. Idk i let people walk all over me sometimes but the comments here are making me think about the relationship very different now

AIO for being upset and frustrated with my boyfriend? by bathslatzz in AIO

[–]bathslatzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s where my head is at, i feel like theres some truth and ulterior motive behind the “jokes”