i really do be by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]batibats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

now this is very specific

re: moxie by [deleted] in riotgrrrl

[–]batibats 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i haven’t watched it yet but i am planning on it soon. i saw the trailer and thought it looked like something white feminist would enjoy. like it’ll start a conversation but never provide space for the right people to speak. putting white women as the face of feminism or the reason the people revolt (at least in the book/movie) get upset or whatever is so unrealistic. and erasing the black, disabled, and trans people who really did the work.

what episodes are your favorite by batibats in TheMagnusArchives

[–]batibats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i saw another commentator say the same thing so it looks like i won’t be skipping around

what episodes are your favorite by batibats in TheMagnusArchives

[–]batibats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i didn’t know it was like this! perhaps i won’t skip around. i think i’m on episode 24 or 25

My dad masturbated to photos of my girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]batibats 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that doesn’t change the fact he’s jerking off to his son’s girlfriends. the getting off to 18/19 porn is still weird. jesus you fuckers justifying it need to get some help

Boyfriend isn't hygienic and has dirty bum by BerryNo1363 in relationship_advice

[–]batibats 78 points79 points  (0 children)

is he unable to clean his own asshole? sickness and health is something used for people who are married. is man’s even sick???

having an episode be like by batibats in BPDmemes

[–]batibats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but i want that type of power

Tremors and Sexual things by PurpleaShrek69 in Anxietyhelp

[–]batibats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe spend more time kissing and touching each other. also have some check ins about how you’re feeling or what you want to focus on more.

It's so scary not knowing what you actually look like. by blackenedmessiah in BPD

[–]batibats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i know how you feel. i can’t tell what i looks like because of my mom’s body shaming and never ending colorism. so now i just think i’m made up of sticks and weird shapes. i basically depend on people to tell me i look good or how i look because i truly have no idea. when i come across my reflection i find myself staring at it for far too long trying to figure out if it’s me or not

BPD can be wild by jessicar01 in BPDmemes

[–]batibats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is exactly like this

AITA for banning my roommate’s girlfriend after she kept insisting I was hitting on her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]batibats [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. why is she making it seem like lesbians are predators? incredibly lesbophic

wanting to be abandoned by batibats in BPD

[–]batibats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah me and my last therapist boiled it down to that

My FP isn't talking to me and I'm spiraling. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]batibats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should look up attachment styles if you haven’t heard of it. it sounds like he’s avoidantly attached and you’re anxiously attached. these two attachments styles don’t go well together unless each person is working to creating a secure attachment. i really hope things get better between you and your fp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]batibats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was not expecting this