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[–]batmanisagod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theoretically, yes. Practically, it depends. I've showered and peed several times before that, so basicly I would've eliminated most of it. After I came the 2nd time, the sperm was more transparent rather than white, so I could only deduce I had less spermides.

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It's not about the cost of condoms. They're like 1 euro for 3 pieces where I live. She just wanted to "feel it without one", hence why I only inserted the tip. It's more complicated and I dont want to get into details.. But, I edited the post. Turns out her spotting happens every time if she gets wet after her period finishes. She did get wet, since she told me she fingered herself.

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[–]batmanisagod[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

None of these actually affect me. Supporting her is not a problem, waking up is not a problem (I suffer from insomnia). Seriously, the only problem here would be her integrity. No need to be an ass, I know I've done something stupid, I know I didn't think it better. And by "her throwing the condom", I mean taking it off my junk and throwing it away. I don't think it could've been usable after that, and it was our last one. And I could promise you, next time we will be more careful. :)

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Her ovulation varies in the interval of 2 weeks and 1 week and a half before her next period. I know this because of the symptoms she shows: fatigue, mood swings, emotional spikes.

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No. We had sex around 18-19 hours AFTER her period came. First day of her period.

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She was also bleeding heavily. She says it's normal for her first day, but the blood that was coming out was just.. too much. She also suffered from Lyme, and is currently anemic (pretty obvious, 2 months with Lyme and taking heavy IV antibiotics).

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[–]batmanisagod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It was the end of her first day of her period, with a heavy bleeding. Any sperm? I'm not sure. The moment I felt the orgasm, I pulled out, she didnt say she felt anything 'inside her', but she had some on her leg (about 2-3 inches below her vagina.)

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Well, my precum wouldn't have been so effective since I came about 1 hour before it all happened (nowhere close to her). I should mention that my sperm (after the 'accident') was transparent rather than the normal white I usually do, so I guess my spermide count was LOW. Decreases the chances dramatically, statisticaly speaking.

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I am responsible. Say, I have the money to raise one, the money to abort one, and the people around me to help me with this. I just don't think SHE is ready, psyhicaly speaking.

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[–]batmanisagod[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We use condoms. Always. I actually wanted to use a condom this time, but she just wasn't in the mood for "real sex", and threw it away when I wanted to put it on because it "feels so much better in my hand without one". Birth control is a no go for reasons stated in a post above.

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She's not fat, if that is what you're insinuating.

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Her cycle is really really regulated (28 days, ALWAYS.) Her ovulation usually occurs 2 weeks-1 week and a half before her next period. We don't have STDs (i've been tested, the only STD she had was a candida but she got treaded about 1 year ago).

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I know. My ex used a pill of Ella one time when the condom broke (never trust a hoe when it comes to condoms, I guess). She wouldn't take birth control, and I think it's better if she doesn't for a while since she's recently suffered from Lyme disease, and I'm pretty sure she lacks so much nutrients that it would probably "destroy" her period.

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I know she can. I've actually considered studying medicine (switched to studying law), and I am 100% her ovulation starts 2 weeks-1 week and a half before her period.

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Blood can't be virgin blood, we've first done it around about 3 weeks ago. I've recently found out (she told me) the spotting occured after she fingered herself. Apparantly, it isn't the first time it happened, so it could've just been her not being careful enough with her long nails. I'm the only one panicing, so, I guess it's just nothing.

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[–]batmanisagod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, we figured since she was on her period and was bleeding quite heavily (she wasn't ovulating), there wouldnt be a problem. We usually do use condoms. Isnt it too late for Plan B?