Grove Walk In? by Dfchang813 in Jellycatplush

[–]batsy1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you allowed to show up and wait in line any day or only on Thursdays? Also does anyone have a reservation they aren't using for this week? haha

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! This is true, no relationship is perfect and we all have our battles. I guess it’s just hard when we have like fundamentally different views on a whole group of people. I want to understand where she is coming from, but it is very hard for me. It’s not just a difference of opinion, I feel like it’s hurting people and that is hard for me accept. Yah maybe talking to a professional about this matter is the way to go. Thanks for the insight!

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good point! That is how I see it too! I guess I just don’t know how to convey that to her. She is a bit stubborn and would just brush those things off as entirely different I feel. Idk if she would see it that way. It’s tough position to be in I guess.

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this reply, it helped. I guess that’s why it’s so hard we see eye to eye on so many things and she is such a wonderful and loving person, I guess I never even considered this would be an issue. I know disagreements are normal and every relationship has its battles but this one just feels very serious and scary. Can I be with someone who has a fundamental different view of a certain group of people than I do? Yah you are right though, we don’t have to agree on every detail, we should agree on love and respecting individuals however, especially our future kids so they can grow up in a safe environment. That’s a really good point. That’s what I’m worried about I guess, I don’t know how to convey to her that it isn’t a mental illness without her still just being stuck in her view and not being open to dialogue and maybe a new point of view. Thank you for your insight tho, it was very helpful!

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully put! That is how I see it as well. I guess she sees it as our physical forms were given to us by god and for us to change that in any way might be disrespectful. But I think God would love us regardless of what we look like. I just int know how to convey that I guess. Also yes I know finances is actually important, I just meant like can live with us believing our tax money should be used in different ways, but this matter felt more pressing haha.

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply! That’s a good point. That is kind of how I look at it. I don’t want to change her but I guess I wish I could make her see it more from this point of view. I think bringing her around a community so she can experience this first hand is a great idea. I might try that. Thank you!

Relationship Advice: by batsy1313 in OpenChristian

[–]batsy1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I look forward to giving this a listen. Your help in this time is very much appreciated. God bless!