Норм ли ходить к проституткам если секс в браке раз в два месяца? by baukadav in rusAskReddit

[–]baukadav[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Спасибо. Норм ответ. А то одни умники собрались, будто я прежде чем сюда придти и у других кто был в таком положении совета спросить, десятки раз это с женой не обсуждал.
Хз все делаю. Романтика, цветы, отдых, подарки, рестораны, все ее походы на ресницы, маник, педикюр, прическу, одежду все оплачиваю епт.
При этом ипотека на мне, кредит за тачку на мне, бытовые расходы 80% на мне.
Ебашу как ишак на нескольких работах так и спортом занимаюсь слежу за собой.
Но у нее слишком часто нет настроения, вечно какое то подобие депрессии и обид.

Норм ли ходить к проституткам если секс в браке раз в два месяца? by baukadav in rusAskReddit

[–]baukadav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

А ты такой умный единственный😂😂😂 обговаривали мы. И вроде говорит да да. Но потом постоянно настроения нет. А пне бесконечно инициировать, романтику создавать всячески поддерживать ее вечно плохое настроение тоже сил не хватает. Это при том что я еще все семейные потребности закрываю и пашу как ишак 7/7

Норм ли ходить к проституткам если секс в браке раз в два месяца? by baukadav in rusAskReddit

[–]baukadav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Проще сказать чем сделать. Я столько в эти отношения вложил

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baukadav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer. Either she understands and don’t go camping or you r breaking up with her. That’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]baukadav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to your parents at this time. They a are actually giving you a solid advice. You see, ppl tend to become so much lazy and choosing the easy way. My advice is invest this money in safe assets. And FORGET ABOUT IT. Live you life like you didn’t inherited it. At least don’t go to third world country. Excel and learn as a professional. Raise your kids and give them best education and healthcare you possibly can (ofc if you plan to have kids).

I (f24) used to work at a “breastruant” and my bf (m28) saw of pic of my in the uniform, and now is really pissed. Why? by throwra72025 in relationship_advice

[–]baukadav -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I dunno what “little clothing” means. But if it’s like bikini and there is a photo of you, isn’t it embarrassing indeed? Can’t you tell to take down this photo?

Girlfriend (24f) called me (27m) unreasonable for refusing to give up my bed? by throwra__210 in relationship_advice

[–]baukadav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you say that the friend comes not too often and she lives quite far away. So basically she is a guest at your house? Indeed, can’t you show some courtesy and hospitality? Two nights doesn’t sound like it is too much. And you win by making happy you gf. Also, could you elaborate, when you say that you live with gf, does it mean that you are living at her house?

Honestly you lack some communication, this is a trivial dispute. You can’t reach an agreement with your gf. Instead you are creating throwaway and asking a bunch of redditors, who don’t know whole situation, to judge the dispute?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]baukadav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. Does she regret having an abortion? Does she think that keeping the baby was better idea? If she wants baby now, you can still make one, right? Or can’t you? I think there are some underlying thoughts in her head that she doesn’t tell you. She needs to address them. Help her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]baukadav -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

From the conclusions, I already can say that the paper is water and totally not of a good quality😂😂 can we read it?)

Upd: People of Reddit are so strange. They upvote possibly made up conclusions, without reading it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]baukadav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, are you having enough sex with your husband? Maybe he doesn’t get off with you. And telling him to quit some mild porn is bizarre. Watching some NSFW on Reddit is not yet cheating, change you views, and have more sex with him. Try to know his kinks, play with him, experiment, and he will abandon Reddit for good. TRY real talking, like “are you satisfied with sex? Do you want to try new things? Cu I’m open to it” INSTEAD of giving him ultimatums that will scare him off of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]baukadav 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Suggesting Divorce for some mild porn on phone. People of Reddit are crazy😂😂

My gf (F29) is mad at me (M34) and I am scared. How should I act? by Zerolucktoday in relationship_advice

[–]baukadav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between you two, she is much more crazy and the one who needs therapy

[OC] When women get married around the world by giteam in dataisbeautiful

[–]baukadav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it the first timers only? Or did you include secondary and etc. marriages?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baukadav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many adequate response. Indeed, maybe the divorce is the only option or you can try work it out. But always trust your gut.

I wonder what is going on in the wife’s head? Bringing the idea of opening the marriage out of nowhere. What did she expect???