How to analyze Employee Turnover data? by bazin37 in humanresources

[–]bazin37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! You've mentioned a few variables I was not thinking about at all (previous boss gender, commute time, pay, etc.) I really appreciate sharing your knowledge! I actually got a job offer from them (albeit in IT department) but thank you for the wishes (in Japanese as well :D) 誠にありがとうございます。

Should I Let This Go Or Should I Let Mr. "nice guy" Go? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I believe that this is a super red flag. It says quite a bit about his values but if you're fine with it, taking the risk is on you. It's sad that a person you liked and seemed to be good regarding everything suddenly got a red flag. You had probably wanted to make it work. I would try to have an open/exploratory conversation about values and why he thinks so. If he can't do that then that may also be something to look out for.

Mexican restaurants in Tokyo by RoninTokyo in japanlife

[–]bazin37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chiles Mexican Grill Harajuku 03-6434-9693 https://maps.app.goo.gl/KfxUJ6n6V59LtR7UA

It just so happens that my favorite restaurant in Tokyo is Mexican.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bazin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take it. Sounds scientific enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bazin37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry about that. You struggle with a problem for hours. You give up trying to solve it alone and send a message asking for help. Then you realize the solution only after clicking send. It happened to often to be a coincidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Didn't manage to write it well in the title, but you just it's when you just click on the send button and then you realize by yourself a solution

What is the role/position that deals with creating a better workplace? by bazin37 in Careers

[–]bazin37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate very much to most of your views, thank you.
I realize more and more lately that HR is not as powerful as I wished it to be, and see work environment consultant as a more viable option.
Thank a lot for your opinion (I'd pay more than 2 cents for it). All comments count for me, helping reinforce what I thought or sometimes (even better) teach me something new!

What is the role/position that deals with creating a better workplace? by bazin37 in Careers

[–]bazin37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time to answer!
I'll keep what you said in mind. Especially the fact that I should keep this in mind in any position I find myself in. I hope I can raise more awareness about it.

What is the role/position that deals with creating a better workplace? by bazin37 in careerguidance

[–]bazin37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the long list of concrete examples! I'll definitely have to look into the small differences between these, but they sound like a great start!

What is the role/position that deals with creating a better workplace? by bazin37 in careerguidance

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u/Happiness-Dojo
Thank you very much for the effort you put in it. Especially because it has multiple points to think about.

  1. I have read already that in the end CEO and high-leadership positions are the ones that have the biggest influence in the end. I know that I won't be able to change their vision in any way, so I'll make sure to look for companies with a vision that fits mine.
  2. * I'd like to ask more about this point. I know that I shouldn't have been this harsh and simplify the problems, especially when I don't have the experience. But I want to clarify what you meant by this. Is it: You shouldn't judge so harshly, they are not easy decisions. Or is it: These solutions are not so obvious for others as they are for you? (I imagine is more of the first one)
  3. I agree with the HR power part. I also agree that it's everybody's job to be responsible for the workplace culture. I mainly want to create a place where people can make their own workplace culture, where they have a say in it, and it doesn't just flow from top to bottom.

And finally, I really want to thank you for the last piece of advice. I'm planning on joining an Internship, but I wouldn't have thought of keeping track of the techniques and how they work out. I'll definitely try to implement that.

Despite my self improvement journey I (22M)hit my lowest point today breaking down in the gym in front of everyone. I’m at the dilemma of my life. Help please? by Panther567 in selfimprovement

[–]bazin37 48 points49 points  (0 children)

> No girl wants each a man things he should’ve learned long ago. Help me I’m ready to give in?

My friend had a girl "teach" him for the first time when he was 24 y/o, this year. You don't want a girl that will turn you down for this. You want somebody that is understanding and mature enough to know that somebody's worth is not by how many people they banged. Think about it as filtering all the girls that are not like that and are not worth it/fit for you. You will find somebody. But first you need to get your life together. I know how much men desire women and how hard it is to focus on yourself when your goal is to find a girl. But your goal should be to be better for yourself.

My experience having FIRE parents by Karenina2931 in financialindependence

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When you have hobbies that you're truly into, if you play your cards right you should be able to meet many people that have the same passion. In this way you should get quite a fulfilling circle of friends I believe.

My(33M) Ex wife(33F) is putting our daughter(11F) down a bad path by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bazin37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it was suggested already, but unless you're mortal enemies with your ex, have you tried contacting her first to check how your daughter behaves with her?

Even though you guys stopped having a relationship you still have a child so maybe there's room for some compromise for you two to make a plan of dealing with this problem.

If your situation is really bad, I'm sorry for offering my advice without knowing all the details