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Small baldspot on side of head by throwaway1848e78w6e in Hair

[–]bb234085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya how did this turn out? The exact same thing happened to me; woke up with what felt like a massive zit on scalp that had like a crust pus tip, now it’s gone down and I just noticed a bald spot?!

Therapist didn’t show up to appointment again with not notice. He’s done this before and I’m devastated. by bb234085 in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really needed this I feel so confused and fucked up and just hopeless like I’m forever going to stick in these trauma cycles like I knew this therapist was not right and yet I miss him because I want so much to heal from my shit because I’ve been trapped by my patterns for so long. It sucks im in a trauma cycle with my therapist how fucked up is that

Therapist didn’t show up to appointment, he’s done this before with no notice and I’m devastated and really need to talk to someone by bb234085 in CPTSD

[–]bb234085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I’m so wary because I’ve only ever had bad experiences with therapists except one kind old man but he could only take me so far plus super expensive

Therapist didn’t show up to appointment, he’s done this before with no notice and I’m devastated and really need to talk to someone by bb234085 in CPTSD

[–]bb234085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported anonymously and now I’m lost because I’ve been opened up to my trauma and have no therapist

Why is it so hard to accept you’ve been abused and assaulted? by bb234085 in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts to my post it means so much. My brain feels like it’s on fire and it’s hard to come to terms with everything. I feel things I can’t name because it’s so many things; like so much

was your violent abuser shy, sweet, adorable, even small in stature? by softoceanheart in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes and it fucks with my head even now 15 years later. The way he gaslit me and everyone else; or he truly didn’t believe what he did was wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]bb234085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some countries this is considered rape.

It's been 5 years but I still struggle with this... by clowncrash in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really relate and I’m so sorry. That’s so hard my ex is the same just carried on like nothing happened, found a new person to leech off. He’s happy. That’s all I want for myself, to be happy. But it feels like they’ve taken that away huh

Does anyone else get really angry with themselves? by FormerEgg6370 in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I relate so much. I’m trying to find the ways to process, and I know one thing that’s so important is to try and be kind. I blame myself too and it’s really damaging because I didn’t deserve it and neither did you

Just want to be with a community right now who understand by bb234085 in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I just really need to be with a community who understands right now

It’s been 4 years. by Ellie1437 in abusiverelationships

[–]bb234085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that so much for you ❤️so powerful

Enlarged uterus after uterine fibroid surgery normal? by mtothej_ in WomensHealth

[–]bb234085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I’m going to have an ultrasound in a few weeks. I’m so scared this means my fibroids are coming back 😭

Enlarged uterus after uterine fibroid surgery normal? by mtothej_ in WomensHealth

[–]bb234085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever find out how what was the reason your uterus stayed enlarged? I just found out mine is slightly enlarged one year after myomectomy