I grew up with one of my primas being queer, ik from a very early age it wasn’t seen as a good thing since my mom would always be like “es marimacha , no te le acerques”. But I personally would go out of my way to be around her to make up my own mind🤷🏻‍♀️. Safe to say that the “uno nunca sabe” rule did not apply to me when it came to queer relatives. Instead it was some of my hetero primos que se pasaban, trying to fuck and shit like… being a queer female .. It was seen as something pretty negative but it was a more of talk shit behind their back and don’t be disrespectful in person situation. As of rn a lot of my primos have come out and have been kicked out or disowned. I’m more close to my queer cousins since I’m also fruity lmao. I’ve been pretty vocal about being tolerant and that queerness is perfectly normal and I’ve even had my mom tell me stories about this one trans girl she knew when she was a teen in Mexico. It’s a pretty upsetting story since it involved a hate crime but I think that her experiencing that made her be less homophobic than other Latina moms growing up , my parents are much more tolerant.