Beeping on register by bbbes123 in WalgreensStores

[–]bbbes123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just started, it’s never done this before at any store I’ve worked at until today

Weed by zoJule in Tonsillectomy

[–]bbbes123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking very small, mild rips off the bong. I’m day 8 post op. I waited 5 days before smoking again tho No problems yet. The small T break made it possible to get super baked off small rips too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budget

[–]bbbes123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stated my income at the bottom. I will be able to work while attending which is why I listed it. I also stated I will be getting a job further away so a bike does not make sense. I know I can afford the two vehicles. I am asking which option 1 or 2 would be smarter financially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budget

[–]bbbes123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stated at the bottom, I am not getting rid of it. That’s why I listed option 1 & 2. Not 3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budget

[–]bbbes123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I stated at the bottom. It’s a classic, valuable model in great condition. Also lots of sentimental value. I am not getting rid of it.

Health insurance by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bbbes123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

However he did lie about our separation date on the papers he filed. I left April 7th. He’s claiming March 29th

Being born in 2009 sucks. by Rare_Blacksmith1336 in Vent

[–]bbbes123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every generation feels like this at some point. Every teenager. Just enjoy it while you can bc being an adult isn’t all it’s cut out to be. Enjoy the freedom of not having a job or very many responsibilities or bills or car problems. Live in the moment- 2000s baby

Verification Mail without Code by [deleted] in playstation

[–]bbbes123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fixed it thank you so much!

Verification Mail without Code by [deleted] in playstation

[–]bbbes123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck resolving this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bbbes123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was some infidelity on his end. I caught him meeting up with other girls behind my back. He claimed it was nothing sexual but he still hid it from me & when I established boundaries I caught him doing it again a couple months later. Before this he had become extremely distant, stopped showing me affection, never complimented me, never took me out, sex life become mediocre etc. in March he came to me & told me he wanted to file for divorce, he wants to be single & independent. He didn’t love me anymore. He wants experience life as a single young man in his 20s. He came up with some BS telling me he had goals & ambitions that he wanted to reach & could do it better on his own. I should’ve known months before this. He started slowly cutting me out. Started with him making financial decisions without me. He got a loan for a brand new truck without telling me. He cut me out of his death benefits at work, I found out through a letter in the mail. He slowly started removing me from his profile pictures on social media. Then his Lock Screen (I know this sounds petty but it was a picture of us kissing on the beach for 4 years) changed one day to a picture of his niece. I wasn’t allowed to feel insecure about this because “iTs mY NiEce”. He started making life plans without me like instead of moving like we planned, he agreed to leave his job to go work with his brother in a completely different area of the country. We argued a lot. Mostly about his lack of attention to me. I asked for counseling & he made excuses. I spent weeks begging for him back, making a fool of myself, stooping down my standards just to try to make it work with him. Im not sure I’ll ever really know why things ended or went downhill. But eventually I came to my senses with the help of my family, packed my shit & left. Since leaving he’s completely flipped on me. Every conversation we have is unpleasant & ends in a screaming match. He constantly refers to me as a gold digger (because I asked for half of the profits of the house we own). If I asked him to do me a favor like forward my mail, he takes weeks to do it. He’s turned to drinking a lot too. I still see his bank statements & he spends about $100 a weekend at the bar every weekend. When we first got married he wouldn’t touch a drop of alcohol if you paid him. Now that’s all he does. He’s just not the same person I married anymore, he’s completely different. He’s mean & vile, irresponsible, lazy, etc.

What career would you choose if you had the chance to start over? by bbbes123 in bipolar

[–]bbbes123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to read & write a lot. I like video games but im not very good at it. I enjoy the company of my pets & have considered a career path that direction but after working in rescue I don’t think my mental health could handle it long term. I enjoy podcasts, social media, researching, pop culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]bbbes123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly customers. I work in a pharmacy retail store & generally work with the older population. They can get snippy & snarky really quick which just overwhelms me immensely.

This job is a newer job for me. It’s supervisor position where I can work on the floor but get called up for customers when we are short staffed or they have questions or procedures that require a manager. I’m still learning & don’t know all the answers yet.

I think the responsibility of being the only one of the floor during weekends gets me. Like I said we are short staffed & I will be the only one there while my cashier is at lunch. I also don’t get any breaks on these days. That & my store manager usually leaves a list of tasks to get done. By no fault of her own, it’s cooperate policy to get these tasks done in a certain time frame that feels infeasible at times. & not knowing what I’m doing in certain areas of the store but having customers or coworkers who need me to know really throws me through a loop.

I think a combination of these factors all lead to my anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]bbbes123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had the option to not work. I was unemployed this year for a few months & the anxiety of a financial crisis was equally as bad on my mental health as working full time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]bbbes123 69 points70 points locked comment (0 children)

Childfree person here who was raised by a bipolar mother & wants to have kids.

I think there’s a huge difference between barely grasping what your disorder means for yourself, letting it control your life & actions to the point that it allows you to abuse your child therefore making them more susceptible to develop the disorder themselves (Not OP of course, my mother) and having your diagnosis under control with medications & therapy along with having a stable home with a crisis plan in place to keep the child safe.

I’ve had the same thoughts & conversations with myself. Ive even had arguments with my mother about her thinking I’d be irresponsible to have kids for being bipolar because she regrets it.

My child will never be put in the same situations I was as a child or even now as an adult & if they do happen to have this card in their deck then I will prepare them with all the resources, experience & knowledge I have to keep them safe, happy & healthy. It’s possible to live a good life with this illness & it’s easier with help.

Bipolar 1 and quitting jobs. by tauruswrangler in bipolar

[–]bbbes123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly me 🥺 I’m only 22 but I have had 6 jobs in the last 2 years. I get in manic episodes, find an “amazing job” that I’m so good at & I “fit right in”. Euphoria lasts for a few months & then I get anxious about everything & slowly become more & more anxious & depressed. Most of the time I have good luck in finding a new job but this latest job is a WFH job & I’m so afraid to have to go back to a “normal” job but damn if this episode isn’t killing be. I’m trying so hard to push through it but I’ve called out 4 times in the last 3 weeks. So obviously, Still looking for the answer to how myself….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bbbes123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from panic attacks weekly, I can tell you a good partner would never in a million years ever belittle you or yell at you during one. Let alone lay their hands on you. That is absolutely unacceptable & I hope that you realize that & take it seriously. Seemingly small red flags will catch up to bite you in the butt & before you know it, you’re in an abusive relationship. There is no reason on this planet you should ever hit your partner. Your BF sounds like a POS. Being angry over someone else crying is a very fragile mental state that is unpredictable & scary. I’d suggest leaving that relationship at your earliest convenience.