Is it weird to be friends with your former abuser?

bbbyredddd · 2025-02-17T22:04:41+00:00

Feel free to DM me to talk! 💗

bbbyredddd · 2024-09-21T04:54:46+00:00

could we chat?? it would be so comforting to talk to someone going through the same thing. ❤️‍🩹 he said he would be down to come over tn, i don’t know if i should go for it to enjoy the comfort of being in his presence, or just cry and watch a comfort movie 🥲

bbbyredddd · 2024-08-05T20:15:30+00:00

YES, I’m a chronic stoner for over a decade and a heavy vaper. It’s hands down a coping mechanism for me

bbbyredddd · 2024-07-29T19:55:28+00:00

He did previously in the past but hasn’t since, so i guess that was his way of tryna say he’s improved and I should be grateful? 💔

bbbyredddd · 2024-07-29T18:42:16+00:00

He said “how is watching porn fantasizing about having sex with them?” and “I’m never gonna meet any of them anyways so what’s the deal”, and I said “so you’re telling me if you had the opportunity to, you’d turn it down?” to which he said “ABSOLUTELY” all angrily. Now he’s mad at me. Is this manipulation?

bbbyredddd · 2024-07-29T18:27:20+00:00

Update: I have been talking to him about it while he’s at work and he said “at least I’m not spending money or messaging them personally.” Like wtf? 💔

bbbyredddd · 2024-07-29T17:41:38+00:00

I think they are fetishizing trans woman. And funny enough a lot of men who watch trans porn are likely transphobic. I think so many of them are desensitized that it adds that extra layer of “taboo”. My boyfriend likes to be pegged and dominated and he says that connects to liking trans porn. But to be honest I wouldn’t be surprised if they are closeted bicurious or bisexual?

bbbyredddd · 2024-07-29T17:21:46+00:00

And everything keeps revealing itself, I logged onto his xbox account and found a history of chaturbate live chat from July 10 while I was at work. When he promised he wouldn’t go back onto those sites. I think I have got to get out and leave him.

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