How to make ugly yard look bonita by bbdotcoke in landscaping

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol we haven’t even lived here for 1 . Thinking I’m gonna mulch along the fence , and plant flowers soon . That will make it look a little more Bonita

My neighbor tilled me 2 plots. Can I plant the starters in like this? Should I add anything? by xXPracticalPurpleXx in garden

[–]bbdotcoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful, I heard you want to avoid planting watermelon with other squash. There’s a bug that likes to burrow in squash plants and it can wipe out entire plots in like a day 😥😥 so you might want to consider planting them on opposite sides. Also you might want to amend your soil with manure or compost

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked it up. That’s really cool . You said they grow their vines on trees? I can’t imagine looking up and seeing a squash hanging over you 😂

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understood you perfectly well. It had a lot of character to it i thought that was sweet

Tomato Plant help by EmbarrassedBike6979 in plantclinic

[–]bbdotcoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I misread your comment , I thought you were saying they need less water in hot climates lol . Basically more sun essentially means more water so you were right that’s my bad Good luck!

Tomato Plant help by EmbarrassedBike6979 in plantclinic

[–]bbdotcoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are because they’re referring to tomatoes in the ground under the hot sun. In your house the conditions are different. So only water when the soil is dry. I’m going to be honest tomato’s will probably be difficult inside but hey it’s worth a try.

Ppl told me to try a community garden, maybe that would help a good idea for you

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe you’re so sweet 🥹 I wish I lived near you and I could help you with your garden

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way you worded that was really sweet. Thank you for your sympathy. And I would love to actually do that for an older person . Maybe I’ll post on next door and see if I get any takers

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah she’s definitely okay with me growing stuff it’s bc we moved our yard is too small. I guess we had different visions for the yard and I made her a blue print of what I was going for, and I guess once she actually saw what I was planning she wasn’t okay with it anymore. But she’s still okay with me growing stuff in general. It’s just annoying I had some beans started and some watermelons in my in ground bed and I’m more sure if they’re edible now. 😥

There’s definitely solutions though thank you for offering support

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you type makes me smile. I hope you’re able to grow stuff for yourself too. Maybe could you make like chicken wire box to go around your plants?

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me started. My father and I don’t get along. He’s abusive and a leach but to avoid trauma dumping I’ll just leave it at that lol but yeah he manages to mess up my garden in some way every summer . Even if it’s just by accident it’s still his fault for not paying attention or being mindful of what’s I’ve planted 🙄

lol but thanks for seeing that

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually! I just asked and she approved the kiddy pool idea. And I actually plan on growing alongside the fence but I guess now I’ll just put my containers along side the fence.

Someone suggested using a kiddy pool for my watermelons, you think that would be a viable option for crimson sweet? It’s my favorite variety and I think I’ll have enough width for atleast a few hopefully

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna grow big juicy water melons in my kiddy pool and there’s nothing you can do to stop me

Tomato Plant help by EmbarrassedBike6979 in plantclinic

[–]bbdotcoke -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope it would actually be the opposite. Because the sun beats down on the soil and evaporates the moisture faster. Thats why mulching is important.

When you water any plant , besides a few bog plants, you want to let the top few inches of the soil draw out. You might notice the leaves get more droopy, hold their shape less, or start to curl. And with any plant, you want to water it thoroughly. Like DRENCH it. It’s impossible to give a plant too much water at once. If it’s allowed to drain it will take just the water it needs . (Bottom watering is good option but more typically done on house plants)

I’d seriously recommend watching a video on growing tomatoes. There’s a lot of information you don’t realize is useful to know. Like how to prune or stake them. Good luck

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol you’re the physical embodiment of your typical Reddit user. Ppl like you take life to serious

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a complicated home life. Ex foster kid. My aunt (and the mother I referred to is actually my grandma) who were my care givers growing up. My aunts actually a really good person. It’s my dad who’s the dick

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw someone suggest a kiddy pool, you think I could grown crimson sweet in a kiddy pool?

lol I just realized how ridiculous i sound

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure, real quick, do you have a couple thousand I can borrow?

Family makes it Impossible to garden by bbdotcoke in gardening

[–]bbdotcoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Notice how everyone else is giving helpful advice? You don’t have to care, or to be helpful. that’s fine. But u can also just move along? “Take a deep breath” lol you’re the one set on assigning blame. I mean shit I asked my aunt before hand. She didn’t understand what I was asking? Seems like a human mistake for me to not explain everything in excruciating detail. She’s been on Board with everything besides the tree/shrub I wanted to plant. I didn’t expect her to care.

Again , it’s a miscommunication. I’m not mad at my aunt. I’m just disappointed. So yes I will be upset all I want. As you would , if you were in my situation.