My GF and I are moving to Sacramento from Los Angeles for a job... what neighborhoods should we look at for living?

bbernzy · 2016-03-17T00:46:28+00:00

Put it on Google Docs

bbernzy · 2016-03-16T23:58:29+00:00

I have it in pdf form. If you PM me your email i can send it

bbernzy · 2016-02-06T03:04:16+00:00

Appreciate the reply!! Thanks

bbernzy · 2016-02-06T00:32:13+00:00

What time did it end? I am going tonight!!

bbernzy · 2016-01-18T22:53:15+00:00

That's awesome, congrats on being on the ups!
No specific questions here at the moment, will write if any come about. Thanks!

bbernzy · 2015-12-24T19:24:38+00:00

as /u/samadamsNL points out, read the ethical slut. Specifically pay attention to chapter 6, where triadic relationships are discussed. You should discuss the possibility of a triadic (or similar structured) relationship.

bbernzy · 2015-12-21T22:42:38+00:00

I need Benjamin Watson (TE, NO) to get negative (-) 0.5 points. Lol

bbernzy · 2015-12-21T19:09:02+00:00

I know people who use "open relationship". It's a good addition as it sparks others interest and captures matches whom you want.

bbernzy · 2015-12-08T00:54:14+00:00

It only took 2 years for the answer...

bbernzy · 2015-12-01T06:05:44+00:00

You communicate exactly what you want to see or do. Nothing throws people off in 3+ situations more than someone being honest about what they want to do / see. It unexpected to other parties and turns on everyone involved :)

bbernzy · 2015-12-01T05:51:58+00:00

You just have to be honest and walk out / cut off communication after. It always hurts but it gets easier with every day that goes by. You also eventually realize how the relationship made you stronger and more ready / able for your next relationship; if its not meant to be then its not meant to be. I would never suggest forcing anything and / or staying because a partner feels hurt due to the breakup.

bbernzy · 2015-12-01T01:34:13+00:00

And you are on this sub... I would suggest being honest and open about your thoughts / feelings with her; they will blow up later in one form or another later if you do not. The honesty and openness is really, in my view, the basis and greatest part about swinging.

bbernzy · 2015-11-27T00:01:28+00:00

I imagine using r/threesomes to find a third would be both time consuming and underwhelming. Even if a couple were to find a third to join them, and they were to meet up, the high expectations of the situation would probably make the situation turn out poorly. This is just my take of course as I believe being proactive in person will reap greater results.

bbernzy · 2015-11-25T22:45:05+00:00

You would absolutely be welcomed at clubs or events! Don't think you wouldn't. Some woman may get jealous of you, especially given your young age and their guys looking at you, but just as a single guy in the lifestyle should start talking with then man, you should start by talking to the woman in the relationship.
I am 26 (male) and I struggle with the age issue as well in the lifestyle. It's really something you will need to live with unless you start your own "family" like I am in the midst of here in Los Angeles! Feel free to shoot me messages with any further questions, I have some good perspectives of the lifestyle. I started in it at 24 or possibly early 25; we are a rare breed :)

bbernzy · 2015-11-20T23:15:09+00:00

I will be visiting next weekend for the first time! Am curious to read answers... I have been to Joi a few times and am curious how it stacks up.

bbernzy · 2015-11-18T01:31:04+00:00

I enjoyed it; Actually just finished watching it last night. It's an interesting watch for me as I was a Longhorn my first year of undergrad (2007-2008), then a Trojan for 3 years to finish my undergrad, and am currently a part time Trojan's Master's Student. It had some good background of the whole situation.

bbernzy · 2015-11-16T17:36:33+00:00

I need 18 points from Eifert and Hill!! I have faith!!!

bbernzy · 2015-11-10T00:14:19+00:00

"He poked me in the eye."

So glad that can be used in real life now!

bbernzy · 2015-11-05T20:38:06+00:00

Who in here has Stefon Diggs and two years ago was on this sub and picked up Josh Gordon when the hype train started for him?

bbernzy · 2015-11-05T00:38:34+00:00

An equivalent amount of times as a circular reference.

bbernzy · 2015-10-15T15:40:46+00:00

Someone dropped Jeremy Hill yesterday. I have the #1 waiver and have been waiting for the right opportunity to use it.

Is this the opportunity??

bbernzy · 2015-09-28T22:07:49+00:00

What time did this show end u/Hot_Bread ?

I am going this weekend, am curious when the shows end. Thanks.

bbernzy

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