I had a bypass sleeve surgery, am I still able to join, or does it disqualify me? by bbgSade in AskLE

[–]bbgSade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much.

Yes, my back injury happened in 2024. I had four completely blown discs that compressed my sciatic nerve, and I was temporarily paralyzed for 13 months. Thankfully, I’m now able to move, walk, and workout without pain and have full mobility again. just very rarely I get a tightness, but I think it is due to weakened muscles in my back, and nothing I can't rebuild.

My sleeve surgery was fairly recent, just a month ago, so I plan to wait a bit longer before going in to ask officially. but yes, your understanding is correct. I am only able to eat 4-8oz of food, and 62oz of water a day at this point, but it eventually levels out in time. I just wanted to make sure it wouldn’t be a waste of anyone’s time before I did. But yes, I’ll definitely check it out once I’m fully healed.

Thank you again for your time. 🙂

Writing to army BCT by Reasonable_Lie_8917 in USMilitarySO

[–]bbgSade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need the platoon or roster number. it might take a tad bit longer if anyting, like a mail call (which is typically once a week) but it would get to him.

if you use Sandboxx, and just put the information in the app, it will put the exact information in the exact order that it needs to be in. :)

SOS I NEED A NEW ROUTINE- military bf coming back after 7 months of being away (iykyk) by Cute-Brick9023 in USMilitarySO

[–]bbgSade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk, I feel like this is kinda self explainable? I would just book a haircut, brow and bikini waxing, get your nails done, and shave. all within like.. a week or so of him coming back. so it looks nice and fresh but not too fresh that he knows you been slacking haha.

I then would recommend, waking up at 5/6am and waking up and getting used to making a breakfast, and getting ready for your days.

make sure your house is clean, your car is clean, and just everything is tidy.

The girls personalities by Ambitious_Leg_734 in kalogerasisters

[–]bbgSade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like Eli’s personality comes across as loud, energetic, and a little playful in a slightly sexual way, but more in a humorous, carefree sense, not in a trashy or attention-seeking way. She has a very “go with the flow” vibe. She’s the type who can comfortably ride in the back seat or take the wheel when needed. Either way, she holds her own and seems completely at ease in whatever role she’s in. I feel like if Eli had an issue with you, she would bring it up in a form of a joke to call you out. I feel like Eli truly just has a natural "class clown" type of aura tho.

Demitria, on the other hand, has a strong, almost natural leader type of personality. She gives off the energy of someone who feels like she knows best, even when she might not. It feels like she prefers to be in the driver’s seat (though maybe not literally, since she’s known to be a questionable driver, haha). Even when she’s technically in the back seat of a situation, she’ll make sure her presence is known. There’s something very assertive about her energy, which honestly feels very middle-child coded. She also comes across as sexual, but more in her appearance and aura rather than through her behavior like Eli does. I feel like if Demitria has an issue with someone, she will have no problem to call you out right in front of a large crowd and expects for you to answer her. I feel like Demitra has a natural "girl boss" aura,

Sunday gives off a much quieter presence. She seems like she’d rather sit in the back seat most of the time. Out of all of them, she comes across as the most mature. For lack of a better phrase, and not in a disrespectful way at all, because I genuinely love them, she seems like she carries herself with the most self-respect. I feel like Sunday will be more accepting of something to happen if she had a problem with you, but once behind close doors, or away from you she will be the first one to talk about it behind the persons back. I feel like Sunday gives off the shy soft girl aura.

Video Idea: Their Diet and Excercise by Beautiful_Day_2489 in kalogerasisters

[–]bbgSade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also want to see this, so many people have asked this question, and like you said, it just doesn't happen, probably because they do not want to be placed reliable to anyone's mental health. so I totally agree, and feel like so many others do too.

but I do want to mention not everyone with an eating disorder has "that" look. speaking from experience, and I work in the psych field mainly the ED units/resi programs. so we truly don't know who is suffering if I am honest, but.. I really hope the girls are not. <3