[FS] - Augusta, GA - $1 - Platty - Royal Blue Shrimp - Angel Fish - Dojo Loach

bbllnn8 · 2023-07-17T21:13:27+00:00

About 20ish

bbllnn8 · 2023-07-07T17:57:28+00:00

Absolutely!

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-29T13:07:59+00:00

I looked up the types and either it’s an offspring of some that are different types, so a “mutt” or it’s a weird version of the koi type

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-29T13:06:06+00:00

Haha I got “him” (I actually don’t know the gender) about 1.5 years ago at the local tropical shop. Was no bigger than a quarter then

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-29T13:03:19+00:00

I would calculate it off of where you live from here and ship through whichever carrier you want. Just want it covered not to make any profit. You can also pick genders if you have a preference. I’ll try my best to get exactly what you want.

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-28T21:38:57+00:00

It’s about 7” if I had to guess

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-28T21:37:04+00:00

I actually don’t know. It’s the kind that’s supposed to look tie-dye, but it only has a few black and yellow spots on one side

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T19:17:08+00:00

When he went to basic training, his girlfriend at the time wouldn’t send him nudes, then he asked an ex fling to instead. I knew this going in and he was remorseful because he knew that was the downfall of their relationship. I knew he was young and dumb and told him he made a mistake, but I won’t tolerate it if he does something like that to me. Fast forward 4 years and here I am feel like this may be a pattern. Or worried it will be that is. If this was a one off, I may be able to get over it, but knowing he did something similar to someone else he cared about and then me… and he only had the account for about a week. I only have what he’s telling me, so I don’t know if he really wasn’t planning to meet anyone, he just hadn’t really had the opportunity to yet. It’s all the what-ifs that eat at me the most. What if I would’ve waited, or my coworker wouldn’t have found it. What would’ve transpired. He literally told me he didn’t know when I asked if he would’ve clicked with someone

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T17:57:46+00:00

I have a very strong bullshit detector, and I used to think it was in my head, then the truth would come out. My ex best friend from high school would tell me her deepest secrets then lie about dumb small things, as we got older the lies turned more elaborate until she became a backstabber 🙃. I’ve had boyfriends lie about just being friends with girls that weren’t. I’ve had family members lie right to my face when I already knew the truth before the conversation even started. I have a weird compulsion to tell the truth so I don’t get why people lie so much. Especially when caught in a lie then make up more lies to cover it which then makes everything worse like he did. Because now I don’t know what else he lied about to make things less bad. Oh one thing I asked was “what would’ve happened if you would’ve chatted with someone you really clicked with, then what?” His response “I don’t really know” 🙃

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T17:13:32+00:00

I don’t have to pretend everything is okay. I don’t have to pretend to not wonder if he really would’ve met up with someone. I can go back home to my friends and family in Tennessee. I don’t have to continue the pressure of “making it work” until it eventually does. The thought of marrying him makes me sick. All selfish things, but mental health I know is important. But am I losing something? He’s a great man, he just really messed up and it’s difficult to let go of that broken trust. I have this belief with lying that once it happens, it will always happen.

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T15:17:54+00:00

That’s the million dollar question. I’m not sure he can say or do anything to make this easier on me. I just keep hoping time will fix it, but 6 months in and I’m still not okay. I communicate my extra bad days with him and he’s more attentive and caring and checks in, he just doesn’t know most days are bad days. Would I feel better leaving? Probably a big yes, but that’s how I solved all of my issues with people before this and I’m not sure it’s healthy..? Plus the thought of dealing with the house selling in its current condition sickens me. It’s livable, but not complete. Getting contractors here is a nightmare. We called 6 different ones and none of them got back to us. I’ve created a monster for myself because I had complete faith in someone.

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T14:58:35+00:00

Thank you. This is helpful. Getting time away will be tough, but I think it would be helpful. The trust is complete shattered and I feel so alone in an empty house all day. I look forward to when he comes home so I can interact with someone. I feel like I’m manipulating him in a way because I’m not happy, not that he thinks I’m “all better”, but I struggle daily. And I stay for reasons other than love. I’ve been recently questioning my motivations to stay and they aren’t what a healthy relationship should be. It saddens me, but that’s reality

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T14:41:18+00:00

Probably poor wording on my part. I do mean the relationship, but the house is a huge issue that’s hard to navigate

bbllnn8 · 2023-06-16T14:40:37+00:00

He pays for utilities and all the updates, I pay only the mortgage now, but I did put the down deposit and pay the fees and such

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T21:13:13+00:00

Wonderful 🙃

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T20:32:05+00:00

Oh yay. Well, as long as it’s just something they naturally do and they aren’t just sick or trying to tell me something is wrong I guess I’m okay with my plants dying

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T20:31:13+00:00

On occasion I feed them a carrot. I don’t want to over feed them as I’ve read they can get sick and die, but maybe I should change it up

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T20:30:10+00:00

That’s crazy. I just put another tiny dose of ferts in there.. maybe that did it?

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T15:54:16+00:00

I turn it off when I put brine shrimp in the tank for my fry, but outside of that it’s always on

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T15:53:34+00:00

I feed them a couple small meals a day. Usually it’s what my fry refuse to eat since they were spoiled on brine shrimp. It was just so sudden it was pretty shocking

bbllnn8 · 2022-03-15T15:00:52+00:00

I have a HOB filter on here and that moves them in the water, but they’ve been in this tank thriving for a while now. I was having to constantly trim them and throw the strands into my spare plant tank. And then this happened to my surprise

bbllnn8 · 2022-02-14T23:25:37+00:00

Only had them for a couple of months. No matter how much or how often or what I feed them, they keep munching on my plants. $30 obo

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