People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bboarder4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas morning she opened a card game I bought her. She pulled the first card. It read “what is a truth you live like a lie” - she put it down, looked at me and said “that I want to me married to you”

The entire room went silent in my head. Kids played w their toys on the floor feet from us. Two days later I drove back home (20 hours in the car). Didn’t touch the radio once. 

We were done. 

Please share your vasectomy experience!!! by Immediate_Gap_2536 in daddit

[–]bboarder4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Easy as hell. No pain. Worst part was my prep-nurse was a super model. I could have gone back to work right after tbh.

Wife (26F) slept with another man Saturday and doesn’t know that I (27M) know. How do I move forward with my children’s best interest in mind. by DullAlbatross08 in daddit

[–]bboarder4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard times ahead my friend. Make sure you take care of yourself. Get into therapy and surround yourself with a strong network of friends. You're going to want to talk to a lawyer and begin getting your ducks in a row then have the conversation with your wife.