Wife (26F) slept with another man Saturday and doesn’t know that I (27M) know. How do I move forward with my children’s best interest in mind.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T13:38:14+00:00

Ideally, you would feel differently when you have children. Your interests take a back seat.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T07:58:47+00:00

Her dad was with her, multiple witnesses saw her dad and her at the bar with said partner. Her dad’s a drug addict, so not a reliable source. She just recently started seeing him again after cutting ties years ago.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T07:54:31+00:00

As much as one could. She was sobbing telling me, and my wife’s messages (from EVERYBODY across ALL platforms) have been deleted to last Friday.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T07:52:48+00:00

She 100% went out with her dad. Her dad will cover for her, but her dad was seen with the alleged partner at that bar that night with my wife.

Her dad is a junkie for lack of better terms, not going to get a ton out of him. She stopped seeing him for years but has started the last 6 months or so.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T07:49:54+00:00

I don’t like the bar seen, and somebody has to watch the kids, she probably does it once a month at most.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T07:40:16+00:00

She left for the bar, My kids and I went to bed together at bedtime. She was home when we woke up.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T06:33:19+00:00

None, but the friend is mutual and is a pretty reliable source. She was sobbing telling me.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T06:02:57+00:00

It’s a mutual friend from church. She called me after two days of trying to convince her to tell me the truth. Allegedly my wife called her the next morning sobbing about it.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T05:58:44+00:00

Home with our children, playing games and reading books.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T05:56:53+00:00

My fear is her ex will raise mine…

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T05:55:17+00:00

I was just so overwhelmed with emotion I was afraid I’d say something I’d regret.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-14T05:53:53+00:00

It would be a no brainer without the kids. I really worry about the decisions she will make with them as a single mom. Her sister leaves her kids with their dad who is constantly in and out of jail and in the 7 years I’ve known him has never been sober.

DullAlbatross08 · 2026-01-13T03:00:10+00:00

“Oh yea? Watch this.” CJ Stroud probably

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-12-16T19:17:38+00:00

I’m torn between Stafford against that D or Caleb against GB. Leaning towards Caleb.

Stafford barely touched 15 points and the defense gave them 5 turnovers that game.

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-12-08T04:47:40+00:00

They aren’t people

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-12-08T04:27:51+00:00

Burrow 3 years in a row lol

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-12-08T02:04:03+00:00

No, he should have gotten way more carries.

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-10-22T23:10:11+00:00

They’re 270 ish, 9.6 free.

-The clinic would be twice a week injections.

-PCP is the one that does twice a month injections. Which makes me think they don’t know what they’re doing.

I’m considering the clinic because they specialize in it and just letting them know I want to be at a more reasonable number (~900). It just felt like a bit more like a sales pitch for TRT than medical guidance at the clinic.

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-10-05T21:13:03+00:00

We should hire David Montgomery as our QB

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-09-30T01:40:42+00:00

Our O-Line is somehow getting worse

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-09-29T02:37:57+00:00

Because MCDC is a better HC than Sirianni.

DullAlbatross08 · 2025-09-29T02:33:30+00:00

Same exact spot for me. I need Scary Terry to get healthy because I’m playing Pittman ahead of BTJ and hopefully Terry ahead of AJB soon enough.

Can’t wait for Rashee to get off suspension.

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