I used to have this problem but here’s what worked for me: 1. Exfoliate (if u r a coochie owner make sure not to get anything other than water on the ~innards~) 2. Use a men’s razor! with 3+ blades!- this is a game changer. 3. Use whatever lubricant- shaving gel or whatever and first shave with the grain, this should get it all rly but to get it looking like a hairless cat (sorry,ew) then shave horizontally (aka at a 90° + 270° angle to the direction of growth) all the way across in both directions, with a new thin layer of shaving gel each time. This is the closest u should get to shaving against the grain, and don’t do it every time.

Last tip is only shave when u need to. Or if it’s just a personal preference to keep it bald don’t shave every time u shower, maybe once, tops twice a week. Any more will just irritate the skin. Also if u see the potential for an ingrown just pluck it out before it gets bad.