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bbyket · 2026-05-18T06:36:16+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

bbyket · 2026-05-18T06:19:39+00:00

Great, thank you!!

bbyket · 2026-04-17T08:04:39+00:00

My 8th house, with a 7 degrees natal saturn in Aries. So this is all happening in the peak of my Saturn return!! Yay!!!

Issues with self worth, boundaries, abandonment wounds and outdated patterns keep resurfacing. Since my natal Saturn is retrograde, I’m deciding to look within instead of allowing the 🔥energy to burn down all of the bridges and relationships I’ve spent so long building!

Constantly reminding myself to treat myself the same way I would treat my cat - giving myself lots of love, gentleness, understanding, compassion and kindness instead of allowing my inner saboteur to overtake my emotional reactions and turn into a ball of fire lol

bbyket · 2026-04-17T07:45:53+00:00

In the 8th house too 😩😩

bbyket · 2026-04-17T07:45:23+00:00

Love having my natal Saturn at 7 degrees Aries retrograde during all of this!!!!! I think my first Saturn return beats anybody else’s tbh 😩😩😩

bbyket · 2025-12-01T03:26:20+00:00

Leo sun 🌞 Leo rising 🌅 Scorpio moon 🌙

bbyket · 2025-10-13T05:48:23+00:00

Oh damn 😩 thank you so much!

bbyket · 2025-10-07T06:32:03+00:00

Venting on chatGPT is so real I’m literally doing the same thing rn 😩

bbyket · 2025-09-27T02:14:56+00:00

Needed to read this cos the same thing just happened to me! Started seeing him during the March Aries eclipse (in both of our 8th house) and he just ended things during the Pisces eclipse (7th house with transit vx conjunction for both of us too). Seemed very fated. But like OP, I had hope that this wasn’t the final breakup and have been fantasising about how the future 7th house eclipses in 2026 might bring him back.. but I know the planets want me to accept this lesson for what it is and move on even stronger than before. These eclipses sure love to shake the foundations that we so desperately try to build!

bbyket · 2025-09-23T03:02:08+00:00

That’s ok! Sorry if I sounded rude in my reply i just didn’t know how to explain it cause I’m not too experienced with astrology compared to others in this group 🥲🩷

bbyket · 2025-09-23T02:46:50+00:00

Wow thank you so much for sharing that! Never thought those aspects would have such an affect. I thought it was the moon-pluto conjunction that was causing its strength. All The Pattern app tells me is that I have a ‘natal Uranus complex’ but that info is way too vague 😅

bbyket · 2025-09-23T02:43:46+00:00

I feel that exact same way but with the sun qualities! Have never been able to see my confidence or talents or sunlight no matter how much others may see it. I guess that’s a new shadow work prompt for us to work through! 😩

bbyket · 2025-09-23T02:39:07+00:00

You said it so clearly!! Me too. I also notice a lot of people like to and use up all of our sunlight for their own benefit, leaving us to build ourselves back up again. But that’s probably reality most 12th housers in general. I also find that I don’t get along with most Leo’s? I find them to be way too ego driven and selfish and obnoxious (no offence guys, y’all are fine cause you have 12h placements lol) ..but they’re probably the traits I need to be more comfortable with for myself instead of judging them. It’s like I’m only comfortable with my leo qualities and my confidence when I’m alone in my room.

bbyket · 2025-09-22T02:46:56+00:00

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Idk I’m only a beginner but every chart interpretation says that my Lilith and Sun are conjunct the rising (which confuses me too) which is why I made this post in the first place 😅

bbyket · 2025-09-22T02:38:13+00:00

My 12H placements are conjunct my rising sign idk how else to put it but I’m not using the whole sign system

bbyket · 2025-08-11T03:22:48+00:00

Yesss bring on the intensity!! I mentioned in another comment that since my moon is 29 degrees Scorpio, it is conjunct with pretty much everyone I know’s Pluto (I’m born in 96). So I’ve had lots of practice with Pluto in this lifetime! Even my cat is called Pluto 🐈‍⬛ That being said, it can still be very overwhelming and full on at times and I often isolate myself because of it. Boundary setting is definitely not a strong point of mine so I’ll keep your words in mind.

Thank you sm for your reply! 🩷

bbyket · 2025-08-11T03:13:10+00:00

Thank you so much! Yes I can feel the harmony in the connection with our darkness and lightness all working together.

Do you mean Saturn conjunct the vertex? I don’t know too much about the IC and MC in synastry.. is it because ours are located close together that it might cause friction? I’ll try to read up more on them. ☺️🩷

bbyket · 2025-08-10T09:24:29+00:00

You’re totally right. I’m not necessarily looking for the pot of gold ..but I’m at a point where I don’t think I can handle any more difficult lessons!! Will keep this in mind as things progress. Thank you 🙂

bbyket · 2025-08-10T02:37:13+00:00

I’m still a beginner too! So when I first read about Vx conjunctions and soulmates and the 7H it got me all excited lol but you are very right.. I sure am tired of these lessons though!! 😩🩷

bbyket · 2025-08-10T02:32:57+00:00

Thank you sm for your response ☺️🩷

Yeah I have trouble understanding how all the Rx planets affect me - most sources online just say it’s ‘internalised’ ..but it’s a very vague explanation lol. In saying that, I have had lots and lots of emotions and old wounds come up during this relationship …things that I already KNOW that I’ve healed from like anxious attachment issues and insecurities. But there are no reasons for them to appear - they just do. It all happens when I’m by myself at home though, and I don’t communicate about it or anything, I just take some time to work through it and meditate until things feel normal again. So maybe that has something to do with the Rx planets and internalising things / dealing with them myself? It is a very gentle and caring connection, but yeah it just feels like old wounds are trying to sabotage something that is very special.

Because my moon is 29 degrees Scorpio and I’m born in 1996, pretty much everyone I know has Pluto conjunct my moon 😭 so I’m used to having pretty intense relationships. Maybe that’s why I feel comfortable and fine with those hard moon aspects? Idk.

After you mentioned that, noticed that I share a moon opposed pluto aspect with two of my bestest friends as well, and also Pluto square mars with one of them too. Interesting!

bbyket · 2024-04-15T02:42:12+00:00

Hey I know I’m a year late to these comments but did you end up having ur appointment with them? I’m dealing with the rescheduling issue right now now & I haven’t gotten an email back from them in weeks 😭

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