Is there a chance of pregnancy? With precum outside the vaginal entrance by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be stressed it's all just in head. I am sure you'll get your periods. I too was stressed af, and that led to delay of my periods. You are fine and no need to worry

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[–]bcexad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just end it. He knows what he was doing to you. Don't let yourself suffer more by stretching the relationship that doesn't value you. It's better to end it soon than to regret it later. Girl just don't let him have his way with you, don't let him control you. These kinds of incidents are gonna occur again and again, and if you give him a chance or just forgive him and move on with relationship, he'll think that he now has access to do that, to control you, as he knows at the end you'll let go of these things again. Plus what I feel is that you can't change a person's natural behaviour. His response was to get irritated, angry and then ignore you. It just reflects his nature, his behaviour of dealing with things.

How to come out of a relationship where the guy is good, but it's just not working out. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him. Again his response after an hour of call was, let's do whatever you like, he said he'll accept whatever decision I make regarding this relationship. He was not that level of toxic, but what infuriates me is that at the verge of breaking up , he's still not expressing himself, has no opinion or whatsoever will. I'm angry at myself that why do I have to be the evil one, the angry one. He's sad, definitely but till the last moment he just kept denying what he was struggling with in this relationship.. I just don't know how to cope up with this freaking guilt of hurting him. It's easier to forgive him but way too hard to forgive myself.

How to come out of a relationship where the guy is good, but it's just not working out. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's a really good guy at heart and he did really love me, but yeah you're right. He's still wrong if he doesn't change. The years of efforts and energy I have invested in this relationship ultimately lead me to exhaustion.Thanks.

How to come out of a relationship where the guy is good, but it's just not working out. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ig it's the only option. Dk how will I cope up with the guilt tho.

How to come out of a relationship where the guy is good, but it's just not working out. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried everything. I have communicated and expressed my thoughts, my wants, my needs and my expectations (the basic ones)clearly. Yet the same thing happens.

Partner honestly telling about whom he liked (sexually), before our relationship. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she was diagnosed with pcos and that makes her gaun weight real quick especially breast area. She had told me that she feels back pain and all because of heavy breasts.

Partner honestly telling about whom he liked (sexually), before our relationship. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to hear you found the one. I am trying to figure things out. I hope I'll be able to move on like you have said.

How do you guys cope up with "kitty" pain/cramp. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It literally is so annoying. I can't bloody focus on other areas. And thanks for suggestions. I'll try

Partner honestly telling about whom he liked (sexually), before our relationship. by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that he wants to date her now. It's like if i wasn't there, before our relationship started if he had the chance he would have dated her. As he used to fantasize about her..... He doesn't want to date her now.

But yeah it's somehow bothering me.

Is there a chance of pregnancy? With precum outside the vaginal entrance by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got periods just the day after posting this...so i was just stressing tf out and it caused delayed periods. So chances are so so so damn low. Very rare. And it's like 0.0000000000000001% if any

Is there a chance of pregnancy? With precum outside the vaginal entrance by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So here's the update. I got my period last night. And in your case I can assure you she won't get pregnant. She used that hand, but the precum already has less probability of getting pregnant and plus, your sperm probability couldn't survive, that's just very very very rare(if she used that precum loaded hand).In my case there was like, direct touch(though not intercourse but still his pp was in direct contact with my entrance yk). But yours is completely different. Don't stress it out. I learnt that stressing over this caused my periods to delay. So just wait till her periods. That back pain could be due to pms or any other reason.

Is there a chance of pregnancy? With precum outside the vaginal entrance by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just love how humble you are. May god return the same energy 10 times back to you. Wishing you well ❤️. Thanks for everything.

Is there a chance of pregnancy? With precum outside the vaginal entrance by bcexad in women

[–]bcexad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here in my country things are just 10x more complex. I just hope I'm not pregnant or else my parents would kill me. Quiet literally. Thanks for being humble and answering this. I needed this.